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Why Do I Get Excluded?

Ask FreeloveMD | June 8, 2008

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I do not understand why I am always getting excluded! My boyfriend has been divorced for two years and we have been together for nine months of those two years. I still get excluded from family functions, holidays, etc. to protect his ex wife’s feelings. Every time an event comes up that I can not be a part of, my feelings get hurt. They were together for 22 years and I have no problem with the fact that they are still friends. I just feel bad when I am left out and wonder if it is my fault for not being patient.

First off none of this is your fault. He needs to be considerate of your feelings and he should be able to bring you to these functions. If he does not want a girlfriend right now he needs to tell you instead of leading you on. Maybe he needs some time to get over his wife and if this is the case you need to let that happen and move on for awhile on your own.

This question was answered by Jasmine, a love expert and FreeloveMD contributor.

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