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Ask FreeloveMD Archive » We Have Never Had A Serious Conversation

We Have Never Had A Serious Conversation

Ask FreeloveMD | July 20, 2008

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We have never had a serious conversation! I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year now and just recently, that head-over-heels honeymoon phase has melted away. I’m over the cutesy, lovey-dovey stuff and I’ve been craving substance! As soon as I discovered what I needed, I began to realize that me and my guy have never had a serious conversation!! Ever. When the topic is superficial, he lights up and can talk your ear off but the minute I begin a topic that relates to thoughts and ideas etc, he switches off. There is no reaction to my words other than an unconvincing “Yeah”. If a good conversation is like a game of catch and if the words are supposed to flow naturally, I’m very worried about our future. I need someone that I can talk to and I want it to be him. I know that he’s not a superficial person, but lately it seems like we don’t connect. How do I go about bringing our relationship from the clouds to the ground?

You seem to already know yourself what you want so talk about it with him. Ask him what he wants out of the relationship and what he is looking for in a future with you. If he cannot give you a serious answer then you might want to consider ending the relationship. Sometimes when the honeymoon period ends the truth does come out and you cannot change a person into becoming something different, but you can start to look for someone else.

This question was answered by Jasmine, a love expert and FreeloveMD contributor.

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