Treats Me Badly
Ask FreeloveMD | December 9, 2005
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Do men really like a challenge and like women to play hard to get? I am nuts about this guy for 7 months and repeatedly he tells me of parties (family & xmas)he is going to and I am not invited, although I am good enough to spend the night with. I hate games and I feel I am just that. What is your suggestion, should I confront him face to face or just fade away with no confrontation? Either way, it hurts.
A calm and collected confrontation is probably your best bet, no need for an argument. Simply say exactly what is on your mind and hear his side of the story.
It seems that there may be other things going on that you aren’t telling us. You should never “feel like just a game”. If you do, then it isn’t a healthy relationship for you and it is probably time to get out.
Have a conversation with him regarding what is bothering you and if you still get the feeling he is “playing you” just walk away. It will hurt yes, but it will be better for you in the long run.