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Should I Trust Him or Is This A Sign?

Ask FreeloveMD | August 12, 2008

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Should I trust him or is this a bad sign? I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, and we both consider our relationship serious. I have never had any trust issues with him so far. However recently his friend (a guy) took him to a movie for his birthday. The next day I found a receipt to the movie and a receipt to a bar on his dresser out in the open. When I talked to him the next morning, he told me he went back to his friends house and had a couple drinks and went home and it was too late to call me. Not wanting to overreact, I waited a couple days to confront him and when I did, he apologized and said he wasn’t sure why he didn’t tell me and that he should have and it wouldn’t happen again. We’ve always had an open, honest relationship and I have no reason not to believe him or no reason to think he’s cheating… especially since we spend so much time together… but should I trust him and his excuse? Or is this something I should be more worried about? And why would he have to lie to me about going to a bar, I never cared before?

It sounds like he was simply delinquent in telling you. He got caught up in the moment and by then it was too late to call. It doesn’t appear that he did anything to jeopardize the relationship. In other words it sounds like an isolated incident. Unless the this becomes a pattern, you should move off it.

This question was answered by Joe, a love expert and FreeloveMD contributor.

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