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Should I Stay With Him

Ask FreeloveMD | April 13, 2008

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Should I stay with him or explore other my other options? I really need some help!

I met a guy through mutual friends and we started dating about 2 weeks ago. Obviously we don’t know each other very well, but I have fun when I am with him. The problem is that sometimes he is really nice and sometimes I feel he doesn’t respect me (he ignores me to talk with his friends when we are together). I am having a really hard time ending the relationship…for some reason I still feel that we are a great match and that I shouldn’t let him go. The other issue is that I also have my eye on another guy, who happens to be one of his friends (although I don’t think they are that good of friends). His friend seems to like me too because I always catch him looking at me when my boyfriend is away. I don’t know what to do! I don’t want to ditch my boyfriend or cheat on him..but his behavior sometimes annoys me and I have told him a thousand times! I see the other guy and wonder what it would be like to be with him..what should I do???

You’re beginning a relationship so there’s going to be plenty of discoveries you both make about each other. The fact that you’re attracted to one of his friends indicates that while you like him you’re still looking. All this is normal. You don’t have to feel like he owns you. Take it slow, have fun, go out with the other guy if you want and see how things evolve. Sounds like you’re putting too much pressure on yourself to make serious commitments. It’s ok if after you’ve been with somebody for a time you decide to make things serious, but those decisions are only reached over time.

This question was answered by Joe, a love expert and FreeloveMD contributor.

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