Should I Leave My Husband?
Ask FreeloveMD | January 25, 2008
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I don’t know what to do, should I leave my husband? My husband owns and runs a restaurant that has only female staff dressed skimpy. He had an affair last year - he said it was a set-up not an affair. Now he has taken our family pictures out of his office, keeps me from visiting the restaurant, and my oldest son has overheard him saying “I love you” to another girl (his asst. manager). He also talks to this girl over 900 minutes per month. He denies it but won’t show me his cell phone bill to prove me wrong. What do I do? We have 3 kids and have been together 13 years, plus I am in school!
I know this might hurt to hear but out of respect for yourself you need to move on and not allow him to do this to you. ALL the signs are there and it is obvious he is cheating on you. You need to face reality and realize that he does not love you. Someone who chooses to cheat has their own insecurities. Once a person cheats and it is almost definite it will happen again. You need to be a positive role model for your children and step away from a bad situation. The children are going to respect you more for being strong then for staying with a liar and cheater. There is a reason people lie and hide things talk the signs and walk away.