Our First Face-to-Face Meeting
Ask FreeloveMD | May 22, 2009
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I am nervous about our first face-to-face meeting! I recently met a girl through online dating. We talk on the phone every day, many times for more than 2 hours, text each other and email. We have even already professed our love for each other. We are so much alike, we even grew up in the same neighborhood and share many of the same favorite activities. Everything seem so perfect and we seem 100% compatible. There is really nothing I can find to complain about. My only problem is that our first date is coming up and I am very nervous about the “face-to-face”. What should I do to relax?
Lower your expectations. You’ve created a situation online and on the phone that has created a “relationship.” But without actually being with the person the relationship isn’t really real. So take the pressure off yourself until you confirm that it’s a real relationship. Hope for the best, but at the same time be prepared for the worst. So think of it as getting the final piece of information before you truly decide. Other than that just relax and be yourself.