New Boyfriend Is Acting Strange
Ask FreeloveMD | July 25, 2006
8 Comments
I have been dating my boyfriend for almost two months now. We get along great. But he is acting weird. So I have three questions for you. My boyfriend sometimes acts like he just can’t get enough of me, one minute, but then the next minute he acts like he is annoyed with me. Why does he do this? Then he talks like we are just going to be great together, and calls from work to chat. He calls about three times a day. He then says stuff that indicates he doesn’t trust me. How can I show him that I am not going to cheat on him? He likes to be with me I think, we do different things together. I have met his whole family, but when I ask him to meet mine he says he doesn’t have time for that. What does this behavior mean? And what can I do? I like him a lot and I want to see where this goes. Maybe I am trying to move to fast, I don’t know. I need help bad.
It sounds like he probably isn’t that interested in you. The fact that he is reluctant to make time to meet your family is a really bad sign. You say he is into you one minute, and then doesn’t want anything to do with you the next. This is another bad sign. It sounds like he is trying to play with your head.
If it walks like a dog, smells like a dog, and barks like a dog, you can be pretty sure it’s a dog. Get rid of him before he ends up breaking your heart.
flyygirl says:
November 7, 2006 at 10:59 pm
I think your boyfriend is trying to play you, but it seems strange that he would introduce you to his family but doesnt want to meet yours. As far as him not trusting you and accusing you of cheating…you don’t need that. From my own personal experience, usually the accuser is the one who is guilty!!
maria says:
April 14, 2007 at 4:57 pm
omg ive got the same problem wiv my boyfriend he wants me 1 minute then the next he ignores me and tells me argrily to get off him if i give him a hug yep hes playin me alrite….
Lisa says:
May 24, 2008 at 12:51 am
i have the same problem. I thought we were doing ok and then all of a sudden he starts to act like he doesnt want me. one day he is all lovey dovey and the next day i get no calls or texts. whats wrong with men these days?
k-law says:
September 25, 2008 at 7:29 pm
ehh yeah mee too
when i leave for a week he sends me pictures of us and textes me a million times telling me to come home, but then when he goes away for two weeks and he doesnt want to talk and lies about where he isss
lovewrecked says:
October 7, 2008 at 9:42 pm
give your bf a chance he probly just wants to make sure he likes you enough b4 he meets your family
abby brown says:
November 1, 2008 at 7:46 pm
going on what you said it is not fair on either of you to make assumptions, be happy in the skin your in, don`t waste your time on people that are not worth it (wondering if he is worth it?)if he is making you feel unhappy, in any way, you need to tell him. if things change, great but if they don`t then you have your answer.you need to give him the chance to put things right and understand how you are feeling. he may even need reminding but if you don`t tell him you are not giving him the option to be what you need. and lastly, don`t sell yourself short there are so many people in the world don`t ever think that you don`t deserve any better than what you have now. life is just one big learning curve and you really have to love yourself before anyone else can love you back.
jessika b says:
November 11, 2009 at 9:22 am
well to me it seem like he dosent knw what he wants in a relation ship n that hes not sure, my bf is acting the same way right now, one min hes like oh i lovee u so much we gna be together n this n that, then next min he act likes he barely knw me n wna tlk to me ,but wants me to do stuff for him. what u need to do is sit down n tell him strate up about wat u feeling because if u waite to late , u going to get deeper in love with him an hpothecly if he comes arounnd n say oh yea i dont wana be with you any more.. its goining to be the worst pain you probley eva felt emotionally wise, an another thing ifs hes over 18 n ur under 18. 1out 2 chances he is playing wid your mind or just trying to take controll over you or plain in simple he wants something from you , and hes not goining to stop acting the way hes acting unless he gets it. but no matter what always go wid your gut feel , always always always !! a womans gut feeling is TRUE!. DOINT MATTER HOW OR WHAT HE PUT ITS , IF U FEEL A SERTANT way about something go with wat wat u feel.
but u serously need to talk to him abouyt it , cause karma will come around.
nasir says:
June 24, 2010 at 12:14 am
going on what you said it is not fair on either of you to make assumptions, be happy in the skin your in, don`t waste your time on people that are not worth it (wondering if he is worth it?)if he is making you feel unhappy, in any way, you need to tell him. if things change, great but if they don`t then you have your answer.you need to give him the chance to put things right and understand how you are feeling. he may even need reminding but if you don`t tell him you are not giving him the option to be what you need. and lastly, don`t sell yourself short there are so many people in the world don`t ever think that you don`t deserve any better than what you have now. life is just one big learning curve and you really have to love yourself before anyone else can love you back.