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My Wife Left Without Any Warning

Ask FreeloveMD | June 5, 2008

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My wife left a week ago without any warning and said she doesn’t wish to speak with me anymore. She says she will see our son again when the time is right. We have a 11 yr old son together and have been together for 15 yrs. I am 31 now. She says she doesn’t want to be here anymore and blames me for always being stressed and taking it out on her. I want her back home very bad and vowed to do everything in my power to make sure I treat her differently. I also promised to change our lifestyle and see counselors and doctors and anything else it will take to make her happy. My question is, is it better that we are apart or do I keep trying to put our family back together?

Every situation is different. My suggestion would be to have a conversation with her to see what the possibilities really are. In other words, if you do x will she do y? You need to gain an understanding of what exactly it is she wants you to do, or is it a question of her wanting to get out of the relationship. Men in general want to fix a problem like they might fix a leaky faucet. Sometimes it’s not that easy. You need to fully understand what it is she’s thinking. After you answer that question then you both will know if it’s better to be apart or to stay as a family. Of course counseling would help as well.

This question was answered by Joe, a love expert and FreeloveMD contributor.

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  • kevin says:
    July 15, 2008 at 11:02 pm

    Sometimes things happen to us for a reason. You may think the world is crashing down around you, but it may be fate has a higher purpose for you. i know that sounds lame, but you may have mis judged the ” girl of your dreams” . she could be around the next corner.stop, think, and look around you. you nnever know, she may be looking back

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