Comments on: My Wife Left Me Without Warning http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-wife-left-me-without-warning/ Get Free Relationship Advice. Tue, 07 Sep 2010 21:48:21 +0000 hourly 1 By: kiel http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-wife-left-me-without-warning/comment-page-1/#comment-43742 kiel Fri, 30 Jul 2010 05:40:20 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=378#comment-43742 its been almost 4 months since he left. I have left him completly alone not bothered him one bit. mean while his girlfriend got my phone number started calling my house comming over to my house. yelling at my kids refuse to let my kids to speak to there dad on the phone and erases the meaages my kids leave for there dad on his phone. he calls and leave a nasty message on my phone that i dont give the kids the messages that he calls. he has seen the kids a total of 4 hours for the entire month of july. my kids dont want to call him back because he doesnt do anything to stop his girfriend from treating them bad. and im the bad girl, im home day and night taking care of my kids making sure now matter what I have to sell that my kids have food on the table and clothes to wear and school supplies with no help never a break. some people should never be parents and he was one of them my bad, wish I would have picked a better man to have my children with, I should have known better! its been almost 4 months since he left. I have left him completly alone not bothered him one bit. mean while his girlfriend got my phone number started calling my house comming over to my house. yelling at my kids refuse to let my kids to speak to there dad on the phone and erases the meaages my kids leave for there dad on his phone. he calls and leave a nasty message on my phone that i dont give the kids the messages that he calls. he has seen the kids a total of 4 hours for the entire month of july. my kids dont want to call him back because he doesnt do anything to stop his girfriend from treating them bad. and im the bad girl, im home day and night taking care of my kids making sure now matter what I have to sell that my kids have food on the table and clothes to wear and school supplies with no help never a break. some people should never be parents and he was one of them my bad, wish I would have picked a better man to have my children with, I should have known better!

]]> By: Kiel http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-wife-left-me-without-warning/comment-page-1/#comment-43241 Kiel Sat, 03 Jul 2010 18:53:50 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=378#comment-43241 after 3 months my ex called I think he had been drinking he said I was a good person a great mother and he missed so many things about me, he was crying on the phone and told me he wanted to come and talk to me in person. 2 days went buy and he showed up to my house with his girlfriend in the truck. took only my son for 45 minutes and then dropped him back off. didnt realize until now that he didnt just leave me but he was leaving his whole family life behind he wanted the single life party life style and our children get in the way of that for him. how sorry he is going to be in his old age when none of his kids come around because he wasnt there for them growing up after 3 months my ex called I think he had been drinking he said I was a good person a great mother and he missed so many things about me, he was crying on the phone and told me he wanted to come and talk to me in person. 2 days went buy and he showed up to my house with his girlfriend in the truck. took only my son for 45 minutes and then dropped him back off. didnt realize until now that he didnt just leave me but he was leaving his whole family life behind he wanted the single life party life style and our children get in the way of that for him. how sorry he is going to be in his old age when none of his kids come around because he wasnt there for them growing up

]]> By: kiel http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-wife-left-me-without-warning/comment-page-1/#comment-40043 kiel Sat, 05 Jun 2010 23:20:50 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=378#comment-40043 I know how that feel my husband moved on with a phone call after 19 years. what he left me for is a joke she is older very sickly looks like fred flintstone. she has the nerve to come to my house get out of the truck and say she wasnt to meet me I told her to get her ass back in the truck i didnt want to meet her. ive told him not to bring her to my house and then she got my phone number and started calling for my kids. I told them to both that I didnt have kids with her and im not going to discuss my children with her. she started calling my house again and I blocked her phone number from calling my house. how hurtful can someone be I know how that feel my husband moved on with a phone call after 19 years. what he left me for is a joke she is older very sickly looks like fred flintstone. she has the nerve to come to my house get out of the truck and say she wasnt to meet me I told her to get her ass back in the truck i didnt want to meet her. ive told him not to bring her to my house and then she got my phone number and started calling for my kids. I told them to both that I didnt have kids with her and im not going to discuss my children with her. she started calling my house again and I blocked her phone number from calling my house. how hurtful can someone be

]]> By: Jason http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-wife-left-me-without-warning/comment-page-1/#comment-39712 Jason Sun, 30 May 2010 14:54:01 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=378#comment-39712 My wife left me for a coworker at a job i found for her. Funny thing is, i told her a year ago what was going on and what the guy was doing and of course she denied it over and over. Sure enough, ONE WEEK after moving out she admits to sleeping with him, and that one week would be one week and one day after telling me how she loves me more then anything in this world and would never do anything to hurt me. What a difference a day makes. Now, i'm without my 2 year old every day. I have her half the week and that hurts more then anything else as i know my wife is making memories with a P.O.S. of a person and my daughter My wife left me for a coworker at a job i found for her. Funny thing is, i told her a year ago what was going on and what the guy was doing and of course she denied it over and over. Sure enough, ONE WEEK after moving out she admits to sleeping with him, and that one week would be one week and one day after telling me how she loves me more then anything in this world and would never do anything to hurt me.

What a difference a day makes.

Now, i’m without my 2 year old every day. I have her half the week and that hurts more then anything else as i know my wife is making memories with a P.O.S. of a person and my daughter

]]> By: kiel http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-wife-left-me-without-warning/comment-page-1/#comment-38433 kiel Wed, 26 May 2010 21:43:18 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=378#comment-38433 I raised his 2 kids from a previous marraige for the ages of 1 and 2 then we had our our kids that 8 years later. 19 years later it was hey found someone else dont want you anymore. im just suppose to get over it while he leads his new party life style and doesnt think of us at all. how long will this take to get over. everything in this town reminds me of him and us. some days hard to deal with everything. I raised his 2 kids from a previous marraige for the ages of 1 and 2 then we had our our kids that 8 years later. 19 years later it was hey found someone else dont want you anymore. im just suppose to get over it while he leads his new party life style and doesnt think of us at all. how long will this take to get over. everything in this town reminds me of him and us. some days hard to deal with everything.

]]> By: larry stanley http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-wife-left-me-without-warning/comment-page-1/#comment-38325 larry stanley Wed, 26 May 2010 05:37:03 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=378#comment-38325 we had problems and she said that she need time away from me cause i wasn`t doing anything.that time i was taking about 45 pills from the doctors and was always in pain but still cook supper.seizures would hit and i would forget what i was suppose to do,but after my first surgery she cried and moved back home telling me .she would pleasure me.well that went on for aboout a week and then it start again .she would go out but won`t have time for me. now she might be with child but we have been married for 18 years and have no kids.i feel that still kid ain`t mine.the guys name is jose colon and i even have his number.he was a dea agent or that`s what he told her.i do love her alot . we had problems and she said that she need time away from me cause i wasn`t doing anything.that time i was taking about 45 pills from the doctors and was always in pain but still cook supper.seizures would hit and i would forget what i was suppose to do,but after my first surgery she cried and moved back home telling me .she would pleasure me.well that went on for aboout a week and then it start again .she would go out but won`t have time for me. now she might be with child but we have been married for 18 years and have no kids.i feel that still kid ain`t mine.the guys name is jose colon and i even have his number.he was a dea agent or that`s what he told her.i do love her alot .

]]> By: kiel http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-wife-left-me-without-warning/comment-page-1/#comment-38319 kiel Wed, 26 May 2010 00:18:20 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=378#comment-38319 my ex who left after 19 year rarely calls our kids to busy with his new party life style. when he does call he yells at me and talks so mean to me and says horrible things to me that are about his first wife not me at all. I try not to think about him but its hard 19 years together everything in town remind me of him. he doesnt think nothing of taking the new one to all the places we use to go and especially the place we met. he is the one who did all the damage and im the one with all the pain how is this fair and if what goes aroudn comes around when will he get his. I just keep telling myself that deep down he knows the truth about everything and he has to live with it. my ex who left after 19 year rarely calls our kids to busy with his new party life style. when he does call he yells at me and talks so mean to me and says horrible things to me that are about his first wife not me at all. I try not to think about him but its hard 19 years together everything in town remind me of him. he doesnt think nothing of taking the new one to all the places we use to go and especially the place we met. he is the one who did all the damage and im the one with all the pain how is this fair and if what goes aroudn comes around when will he get his. I just keep telling myself that deep down he knows the truth about everything and he has to live with it.

]]> By: bruce http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-wife-left-me-without-warning/comment-page-1/#comment-37796 bruce Fri, 21 May 2010 01:33:51 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=378#comment-37796 we were married for 9 years,but been with her for 20.guess i fall under the idiot category lol.she had left me in 95 for another guy,just out of the blue,not a hint, with 2 young children.i suffered for about 5 months(it was extremely painful,very very painful)but we were'nt married yet so women were'nt a problem in my life then.but i still suffered the excrutiating pain along with my son and daughter.i started drinking to ease the pain also.around the 9 month area,she came crawling back.all i had to do was put my car in drive and i was gone,but lol i took her back.she never said sorry but showed me in other ways,i thought that was good enough so we ended up getting married,it was her idea.so we said our vows in 98 and i quit my party life.after 9 years of marriage,i guess she just got bored and started cheating on me,guess i should have known from when we first met that a leopard does'nt change their spots.but that's what love does to a guy,makes them blind to everything.i noticed a change in her,the friends she hung out with were carefree but i just let her be cause i was the good husband giving her space and she led on tha we were ok,like we never had a problem.all the things married people do together was awesome.i was working trying to make a good living for my family.because of the way we were,i never thought for a second she would do this to me again.people often commented on how happy we looked,and my so-called friends would tell me what a lucky guy i was to have a woman that loved me,and of course i loved her with all my heart and soul.but that last year was rough.i could feel things but just shrugged them off as dum jealous feelings and i did'nt want to be that kind of guy.the feelings were getting stronger till one day i asked her on the phone that we had to talk......then "bang" she just left,all along she had been seeing a guy i thought was my best friend for a year.i never thought i could feel that much pain or cry that many tears and live to talk about it.there were nights my bed was soaked from tears,and nights i wanted to die.she never said a word or tried to explain.i tried to understand but could'nt.we had 3 kids now and i was trying to hold it together for them.she left me at an alltime low in my life too,no income,no where to work.she supposedly took care of the bills but they were all piling up. anyway yes my friend i feel your pain,i know where your at right now.trust me when i say this,there is a Higher Power or how ever you feel comfortable calling Him.my point is it eventually gets better. she's still gone but my life is getting better and my luck changed,i found a good job,and things look good........hang in there,from what i been reading here,your not alone just remember everything goes around,God bless we were married for 9 years,but been with her for 20.guess i fall under the idiot category lol.she had left me in 95 for another guy,just out of the blue,not a hint, with 2 young children.i suffered for about 5 months(it was extremely painful,very very painful)but we were’nt married yet so women were’nt a problem in my life then.but i still suffered the excrutiating pain along with my son and daughter.i started drinking to ease the pain also.around the 9 month area,she came crawling back.all i had to do was put my car in drive and i was gone,but lol i took her back.she never said sorry but showed me in other ways,i thought that was good enough so we ended up getting married,it was her idea.so we said our vows in 98 and i quit my party life.after 9 years of marriage,i guess she just got bored and started cheating on me,guess i should have known from when we first met that a leopard does’nt change their spots.but that’s what love does to a guy,makes them blind to everything.i noticed a change in her,the friends she hung out with were carefree but i just let her be cause i was the good husband giving her space and she led on tha we were ok,like we never had a problem.all the things married people do together was awesome.i was working trying to make a good living for my family.because of the way we were,i never thought for a second she would do this to me again.people often commented on how happy we looked,and my so-called friends would tell me what a lucky guy i was to have a woman that loved me,and of course i loved her with all my heart and soul.but that last year was rough.i could feel things but just shrugged them off as dum jealous feelings and i did’nt want to be that kind of guy.the feelings were getting stronger till one day i asked her on the phone that we had to talk……then “bang” she just left,all along she had been seeing a guy i thought was my best friend for a year.i never thought i could feel that much pain or cry that many tears and live to talk about it.there were nights my bed was soaked from tears,and nights i wanted to die.she never said a word or tried to explain.i tried to understand but could’nt.we had 3 kids now and i was trying to hold it together for them.she left me at an alltime low in my life too,no income,no where to work.she supposedly took care of the bills but they were all piling up.
anyway yes my friend i feel your pain,i know where your at right now.trust me when i say this,there is a Higher Power or how ever you feel comfortable calling Him.my point is it eventually gets better.
she’s still gone but my life is getting better and my luck changed,i found a good job,and things look good……..hang in there,from what i been reading here,your not alone
just remember everything goes around,God bless

]]> By: kiel http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-wife-left-me-without-warning/comment-page-1/#comment-37770 kiel Thu, 20 May 2010 23:28:54 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=378#comment-37770 how do you get over the hurt and loss when your husband leaves you after 19 years for someone else. all of a sudden there is a new women in my childrens life there confused and everything is dumped on me to deal with how they they just move on to someone else so quickly and never think about you he is doing all the things for her he never did for me. its been a little over a month and I still cant get it out of my head how do you get over the hurt and loss when your husband leaves you after 19 years for someone else. all of a sudden there is a new women in my childrens life there confused and everything is dumped on me to deal with how they they just move on to someone else so quickly and never think about you he is doing all the things for her he never did for me. its been a little over a month and I still cant get it out of my head

]]> By: stephen http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-wife-left-me-without-warning/comment-page-1/#comment-35240 stephen Thu, 06 May 2010 11:34:22 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=378#comment-35240 Follow my steps and at the end you will see.It will all be for the best.Your just dealing with being alone not missing her. Follow my steps and at the end you will see.It will all be for the best.Your just dealing with being alone not missing her.

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