Comments on: My Husband’s Many Girl Friends on Facebook http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-husbands-girl-friends-on-facebook/ Get Free Relationship Advice. Fri, 30 Jul 2010 05:40:20 +0000 hourly 1 By: Elizabeth http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-husbands-girl-friends-on-facebook/comment-page-1/#comment-27343 Elizabeth Wed, 07 Apr 2010 08:01:13 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=530#comment-27343 My husband has 451 girls on his facebook out of 624 friends. He has a girl that he had proposed to before me that he talks to once or twice a day on his cell phone. Not to mention other girls that he might talk to or text on his cell phone. However they are all "just friends". My husband has 451 girls on his facebook out of 624 friends. He has a girl that he had proposed to before me that he talks to once or twice a day on his cell phone. Not to mention other girls that he might talk to or text on his cell phone. However they are all “just friends”.

]]> By: April Braswell http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-husbands-girl-friends-on-facebook/comment-page-1/#comment-11719 April Braswell Mon, 16 Nov 2009 03:41:11 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=530#comment-11719 Hi Free Love MD, I just stumbled across your great dating assistance website today. Wow, isn't it the truth, all of the online flirting that goes on with MySpace and Facebook. Indeed, when that many of his FB friends are girls and he doesn't cherish your feelings... Well, isn't a good man supposed to cherish your feelings? That is certainly part of my criteria for a continuing relationship, especially when you've brought it up like. I don't expect a man to be a mind reader, afterall. But once you've talked about it.... Your advice sounds right on target to me. April Braswell Hi Free Love MD,

I just stumbled across your great dating assistance website today.

Wow, isn’t it the truth, all of the online flirting that goes on with MySpace and Facebook. Indeed, when that many of his FB friends are girls and he doesn’t cherish your feelings… Well, isn’t a good man supposed to cherish your feelings? That is certainly part of my criteria for a continuing relationship, especially when you’ve brought it up like. I don’t expect a man to be a mind reader, afterall. But once you’ve talked about it….

Your advice sounds right on target to me.

April Braswell

]]> By: weather http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-husbands-girl-friends-on-facebook/comment-page-1/#comment-10390 weather Sun, 21 Jun 2009 11:36:01 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=530#comment-10390 alright guys, so my fiance is OK!!! aparently it's just some nodules that are harmless... SWEET!!! alright guys, so my fiance is OK!!! aparently it’s just some nodules that are harmless… SWEET!!!

]]> By: lily23 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-husbands-girl-friends-on-facebook/comment-page-1/#comment-10388 lily23 Sun, 21 Jun 2009 03:35:28 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=530#comment-10388 Allowing these small relationships to develop seems so miniscule and innocent time being for him, however it lowers your self-worth and desirability. You feel the need to let him have these non-personal relationships to show trust and reiterate your strong love and commitment. However the truth being that allowing this relationship to develop just opens up new doors to more inappropriate behavior, which in time will appear less inappropriate to you. At the time this relationship may be insignificant to him as well, but allowing a strong bond to form between your husband and another woman is unhealthy in any aspect of your marriage. You have to put an end to this relationship, (and that is what it is, no sugar coating). Make him realize that he is showing that he devalues your marriage by allowing other women to make you feel insignificant. As hard as it sounds Communication is key in any strong relationship. Trust is equally as important, however allowing these vast opportunities for other relationships are just opening up the flood gates for an unfaithful marriage. The sanctity of marriage is the utmost value of your life and if you have children or plan to have children, their lives as well. I hope this can be of some help to you, or in any sense show you that what you are feeling is more than a female intuition that this behavior is not acceptable. Allowing these small relationships to develop seems so miniscule and innocent time being for him, however it lowers your self-worth and desirability. You feel the need to let him have these non-personal relationships to show trust and reiterate your strong love and commitment. However the truth being that allowing this relationship to develop just opens up new doors to more inappropriate behavior, which in time will appear less inappropriate to you. At the time this relationship may be insignificant to him as well, but allowing a strong bond to form between your husband and another woman is unhealthy in any aspect of your marriage. You have to put an end to this relationship, (and that is what it is, no sugar coating).
Make him realize that he is showing that he devalues your marriage by allowing other women to make you feel insignificant. As hard as it sounds Communication is key in any strong relationship. Trust is equally as important, however allowing these vast opportunities for other relationships are just opening up the flood gates for an unfaithful marriage. The sanctity of marriage is the utmost value of your life and if you have children or plan to have children, their lives as well.
I hope this can be of some help to you, or in any sense show you that what you are feeling is more than a female intuition that this behavior is not acceptable.

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