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My Husband Pretends To Be Single

Ask FreeloveMD | July 19, 2008

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I have been married for 1 1/2 years, and my husband still pretends to be single some times! My husband and I get in arguments every so often, and I tell him he makes me so mad I don’t want to be with him! Then he says oh yeah, and tends to take off. He provokes me in a way, he knows how to make me so mad I say those things, but don’t mean it 2 hours later after I cool off. However, he usually does his own thing the nights of our arguments. I have checked the phone bill and every night we have issues (usually every weekend) he will call women. I recently called a girl from the phone bill. She told me they had been talking but had not had the chance meet yet (he met her while driving and got her number). He plays single when its to his advantage, yet were not divorced..and marriage is committed even if you get really mad and say hurtful thing right? So are these things he is doing right or wrong? I know I could never do it to him! I have confronted him and he has apologized but this is like the 7th time I’ve confronted him since we got married. The thing is I cant prove he cheated…what should I do?? Please help!

Actually he has been cheating if he is taking to other girls and pretending he is single while still being married to you. You need to confront him on these issues and understand why he is doing this. When you got married you made a commitment to each other so why is he now breaking that commitment. You need to both decide if you really want to married and if the answer is no then get a divorce.

This question was answered by Jasmine, a love expert and FreeloveMD contributor.

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