My husband has been acting very sneaky and evasive lately. The other day he told me had been afraid to tell me he was friends with a girl at work because he thought she was pretty (we both work with this girl). Recently he went to her apartment to help her move, they’ve been caught hugging at work and they even came up with a secret handshake that just the two of them know. He also didn’t want to go shopping with me recently until he found out she was going with me and then he wanted to go. She sent him a text after we got home that he immediately deleted. She is going through a divorce so I have been trying to be nice to her but I really think that she is using me to get closer to my husband. When I ask him about it all he says is either he doesn’t know or he doesn’t remember.