My Husband Doesn’t Trust Me!
Ask FreeloveMD | January 19, 2008
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My husband doesn’t trust me! I have been married almost 6 years and have only been with my husband intimately. But he doesn’t trust me and I don’t think he ever has. He made me get rid of all my guy friends in the beginning, if I go out of the house he calls me at least 5 times before I get back. When I do leave the house I feel a need to call him and tell him every move I am making. What do I do? It seems that no matter what I do he still has trust issues, i have told him over and over that I am not the cheating kind…it is not in my makeup. But he still does not trust me. This has made my life absolutely miserable!! Should I try something else or just end it???
Sounds like your situation has gotten out of hand if you’re contemplating ending your marriage over it. Everyone has some issues of jealousy (which is basically insecurity), but in your situation your husband is way over the top. Have you told him how his behavior affects you? Perhaps he doesn’t understand how crazy he’s made you feel. He needs to understand that’s it not all about him. If he truly understands that the relationship/marriage is in danger because of his behavior he might hopefully see the light. Counseling might also help.
Heather says:
January 12, 2009 at 4:38 pm
I have the same exact problem expect I have to text 24/7 and have to explain my every move :s But I love my fiance.