My Husband Doesn’t Listen To Me
Ask FreeloveMD | June 13, 2008
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My husband and I have been together for twelve years but I feel like he doesn’t listen and takes me for granted in many different ways. I have tried to tell him how I feel but he gets defensive and we end up arguing. Later he will say that things will be different but they never are. I am getting to the point where I resent him and feel like I need to fight for what I deserve. How do we break out of this cycle and be happy together again?
The cycle is not going to change unless you are both willing to make the appropriate changes so the relationship will work. If he gets defensive every time you tell him how you feel the situation is never going to get better. You need to express all your emotions and tell him why you feel like he does not listen and takes you for granted. If he is unwilling to change you are constantly going to be in a battle and this it is never going to be healthy. You have to think about yourself and what you truly want in life. Remember life is too short to be miserable with one person.
tytisha says:
August 1, 2009 at 2:07 pm
but i throught it suppose marriage could share together like happy,respect,listen….but i already told him abt my lifwe long timea go.. i never been was happpy all my life… but i really want need by happy more more more more more stay there happy more morwe happy but most guys never make me happy nothing in my life. ii really want be happy what look like and change life good mood and gain weight nice face tight…. that how my feeling from my chest.. but sometimes he might don t belivee or dont care it.. what i suppose to do??? please help me please please please help me how???