My girlfriend found explicit photos my ex-girlfriend, from 6 years ago, while snooping on my computer. I honestly forgot that they were still on there or I would have gotten rid of them long ago (and if you’re thinking “yeah right” – think again – it’s the truth!). I’ve caught her snooping through my journals and diaries. I have told her that I’m not comfortable with her rummaging through my belongings, but she always denies it and comes up with some clever excuse. I understand why seeing photos of me and my ex-girlfriend would be upsetting, but I don’t feel that I’ve done anything wrong and it bothers me that my current girlfriend would be so sneaky and deceptive. We’ve been together for three months, I’ve always been faithful. I’ve never cheated on anyone! I haven’t seen those pictures in years and it makes me sick that she has seen them. But it also makes me sick that she went searching through my computer and invaded my privacy by viewing private documents and files. I worry that this kind of suspicious behavior is going to continue in the future. I’ve never lied to my current girlfriend or given her any reason to mistrust me. She frequently finds excuses for me to leave her alone in my apartment and though it seemed strange to me, I thought I had nothing to hide or fear. Now I feel very uneasy and worried about my girlfriend and our relationship. I also feel that my privacy has been violated and that trust in our relationship has been compromised on both sides. I want to continue with this relationship because I genuinely love my girlfriend, but I can’t tolerate being spied upon or being held under suspicion for something that happened six years before I met my girlfriend. What should I do? FYI, I erased the photos when they resurfaced and they’re gone for good!