My Boyfriend Sucks
Ask FreeloveMD | June 4, 2007
6 Comments
It has been months since my boyfriend and I have any sexual contact. We used to have sex about every other day. He is starting to be very secretive and told me that he is not sure if he loves me as much anymore. When I told him I was unhappy he told me to deal with it because he is never going to change. We have lived together for two years and I feel like his roommate rather than his girlfriend. We both work and I go to school, yet I am the only one taking care of the house. I am lost!
Your boyfriend said he isn’t sure if he loves you as much anymore? You need to get that statement clarified ASAP. If he reiterates his position then you need to kick his ass to the curb.
sandra says:
June 20, 2007 at 6:33 pm
Your boyfriend means what he is saying! No sex and secrets means there may be someone else. Don’t waste your time on someone who is not willing to make reasonable changes, change never hurts anyone especially if it is to enhance the relationship. You can’t change people, you can only hope that they can see the changes that they may need to make. I spent 20 years in a marriage with hopes that he would change, he was very irresponsible and never cared about anything or anyone but himself, sounds like your man. Get out while you can and before you bring children into the world because they will be the one who suffers the most.
Brian says:
June 25, 2007 at 3:54 pm
Plain and simple he is cheating on you and he is using you as his mom. please tell me you’re not doing his laundry too.
he sees you as a mom who will cook, clean and do everything around the house then one day he is going to break it off and you will look like the physco and loser because all he has to say is i told you a long time ago i didnt love you. kick him out or get another roommate.
October-Skye says:
July 22, 2007 at 3:05 pm
Keeping secrets is the beginning of disaster! his uncertainty of his love for you says it all. leave him or put him out!if his time and efforts are being taken up by another woman then u do not need him! and once u leave him, takethe baggage and let it go and focus on u for awhile. u will find someone worth your true love!
AC says:
July 26, 2007 at 3:24 pm
I agree, kick his butt outta there. secrets, no lovin, and complete responsibility for chorse is not cool! if he can’t give you a straight up answer as to whether he loves you and/or is cheating tell him to get out until he can. there are lots of guys out there that are probably a whole lot nice than your current beau
Lee says:
January 5, 2008 at 3:43 pm
Honey is doing it with someone else. Don’t wait around to find out and get hurt. Throw him to the curb. That’s a rotten thing to do. Find a great looking guy, and jump all over him.
mellisa says:
June 16, 2009 at 1:03 am
I know how you feel and it sucks I found this sute cause I am feeling the same way , Get this today at the park my what ever you want to call him I don’t want to call him any thing awnsers his phone at furst I thought it was a male friend what ever then things change and he is not talking mean like men do to guys. I come to find out later cause he was stupid and left his phone open that it was his ex that he said he had no reason to talk to any more please. I don’t have stupid across my head, so I call her up and say its not cool for you two to talk any more . But what if it doesn’t matter to any one but me what do I do .Some men need to learn alot the good ones need to share the right way to be with a woman.