http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-best-friends-boyfriend/ Get Free Relationship Advice. Thu, 09 Sep 2010 12:25:41 +0000 hourly 1 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-best-friends-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-2530 Samantha Mon, 23 Jul 2007 02:38:40 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/my-best-friends-boyfriend/#comment-2530 Your bestfriend doesnt see a problem when their together, you can simply ask her to look at her own life in someone elses shoes. I was in an abusive relationship and I knew when he was hitting me and making fun of me that i didn't deserve that, but when we weren't fighting we had so much fun and it was as if nothing bad ever happened. One morning I woke up with 4 cuts on my left leg as if someone had torn chunks out of my legs with their nails. One of my friends told me I needed to get out before it got worse but I kept denying that there was a problem till she told me to look at our relationship from her perspective. After a week of looking over all my scars and bruises I realized that I had to leave. That was the easy part I had to move out of town just to avoid him, he would harrass me at work and made me lose my job. Let her know your just concerned about her safety, she will deny it but you'll have to keep high hopes that she'll realize there's a problem before it gets worse. Your bestfriend doesnt see a problem when their together, you can simply ask her to look at her own life in someone elses shoes. I was in an abusive relationship and I knew when he was hitting me and making fun of me that i didn’t deserve that, but when we weren’t fighting we had so much fun and it was as if nothing bad ever happened. One morning I woke up with 4 cuts on my left leg as if someone had torn chunks out of my legs with their nails. One of my friends told me I needed to get out before it got worse but I kept denying that there was a problem till she told me to look at our relationship from her perspective. After a week of looking over all my scars and bruises I realized that I had to leave. That was the easy part I had to move out of town just to avoid him, he would harrass me at work and made me lose my job. Let her know your just concerned about her safety, she will deny it but you’ll have to keep high hopes that she’ll realize there’s a problem before it gets worse.

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