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Is He Too Flirtatious?

Ask FreeloveMD | August 19, 2008

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How can I tell if he is too flirtatious? My fiancee is a very flirtatious man who has a lot of single female friends. He texts them from his phone regularly with fun, flirty little messages. For example: “Bring your friend to our party.. she has pretty eyes” or “Are you girls out looking for hot men tonight?”. I know most of the girls he is friend with and know he is not cheating on me ( at least I really don’t think) but I am scared it is a sign he loves the single life. He says he is too old for that game and is just having fun and I should lighten up. He doesn’t go out on dates or anything like that but he is always the life of the party and women love his personality. Should I be as jealous as I feel? Is this a HUGE red flag?

You could lighten up a bit as it appears that this is part of his personality. However, at the same time he needs to respect your feelings more than he does. It wouldn’t kill him to modify his behavior somewhat. Try flirting more yourself and see if he likes it.

This question was answered by Joe, a love expert and FreeloveMD contributor.

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  • Mike says:
    August 20, 2008 at 9:16 am

    Do it to him. Blantantly flirt with guys in front of him and see how he reacts.

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