Is He Just Being Careful?

Ask FreeloveMD | March 12, 2007

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I have been dating a wonderful man for a year. He was separated when we met and prior to being separated was unhappy in his marriage. I feel like he is the best thing that has happened to me. He is great to me and to my two girls. When he got separated he put in for a job transfer back home where all of his family lives. He moved back home a month ago and I have been having a hard time with it. I love him very much and would love to raise a family with him. He knows how I feel about him. Our communication is great. He says that he cares about me a great deal and I am the most significant and important person in his life, however he has yet to tell me that he loves me. I feel like I really don’t know where I stand in this relationship. He does talk about me and my girls moving in with him this summer when they finish out school for the year. He tells me that he wants to be 100% sure since there are kids involved. He states that if it was just me he would have me there with him already. He says that he misses me terribly and he does call me numerous times a day to talk. He says that he is 90% sure he wants me and the girls there. He says that the house and his life is not the same without us there. Do you think it is just talk or do you think he is just being careful since he just recently got divorced?

He is treading carefully, which is probably good idea. He just got out of a relationship and he isn’t sure if he wants to get right back into another one. He is being prudent by considering your children, which is a good thing. The last thing you need is to move your children in with him and then have it not work out. Take it slow and don’t pressure him into a decision just yet. Give him some time to get his life together so he can make a smart decision. Hopefully everything works out for the best.

This question was answered by Michael, a love expert and FreeloveMD contributor.

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