I found my soul mate but I am married to someone else! I am a married man of four years with two children from this relationship and one from a previous one. I am in a predicament as I’ve met someone who is all that I have been looking for all these years and could not find. I believe that I married my wife to hastily and now I’m stuck. I don’t want to hurt anyone but at the same time my wife and I have had some serious troubles recently and I’m not sure if it’s the fact that I’ve finally met my “soul mate” four years after swearing my loyalty to someone i DON’T love. My kids will suffer more than she and I ever would but at the same time i don’t want to end up alone. What should I do? I’ve done some real soul searching and I can honestly say that anything my wife and I once had is long gone. Do I cheat? I guess I already have. This woman knows how I feel and she is in agreement that we have something special that we’ve both been looking for a long time. We’ve had some deep serious conversations and both think we could make a wonderful future together. I believe that marriage is an institution not to be taken lightly and I know that my vows are already shattered at my feet. So do I end my current marriage even though it will cause my children pain, (although it will be nothing compared to the pain they will feel if we stay together) or do I stick it out and we can all be absolutely miserable together?