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I Feel Like I Am Too Young To Not Be Single

Ask FreeloveMD | July 28, 2008

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I feel like I am too young to not be single. I’ve been dating this guy for 2 years and it’s been great for the most part. Part of me really wants to continue on with the relationship because I’m happy with him. But another part of me is urging me to be single again. I just graduated high school and will be starting college in a month. I really want to experience college life with my boyfriend, but I also want to experience it as a single young woman. When I’m away from him is when I have the “single” urges most. But when I’m with him and I see him doing his everyday stuff I remember why I love him so much. It’s almost as if I can see myself continue on without him, but I can’t see him without me, if that makes any sense at all. What to do? Stay with him and hope for the best or leave now while we’re doing pretty good, that way we have good memories of each other?

It is a difficult time because you have both feelings. If possible take somewhat of a break from each other. However, this is easier said than done. It takes unusual maturity and more than likely it will result in never being with your boyfriend again. But you never know. Go with your strongest urge and don’t second guess yourself. See how college goes and be open to new possibilities. If and when they arrive you can decide if the trade off is worth it. Then you can decide whether to break off the relationship. Just be honest and let him know your game plan.

This question was answered by Joe, a love expert and FreeloveMD contributor.

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  • Mike says:
    July 31, 2008 at 1:30 pm

    I you leave him while things are good, you will have good memories of time with him, and he will bad memories of the time you broke his heart.

  • J says:
    August 7, 2008 at 9:30 am

    Man girl,. if u love him and you cant stand being with out him just think if you did break up with him wouldnt that be devestating for the both of yall,.you should talk to him and see what he has to say about this whole situation

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