I Ended My Affair But I Can’t Get Over Him
Ask FreeloveMD | May 17, 2008
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Six years ago I had an affair with a friend of a friend, I ended it but I just can’t seem to get over him. I have seen him here and there and never spoken to him, but I’m almost positive he could hear the thundering of my heart! I need to get over this, I need to get over him, and just when I think I’m rid of him…I’ll see him and the feelings will come rushing back! Help!!
You need to give it time. It is understandable that the feelings will not immediately go away but the relationship is not going to work and you need to accept that. It will be hard and will hurt but you might want to avoid situations when you know you might see this person. It is something that can help you move on and that is what you need.
Katja says:
July 5, 2008 at 1:27 am
I understand what you are going through I am in a similar sitation. I have not ended it yet but I am thinking about it. I am head over heals inlove with him but I am married with two kids. I love to be with him and the sex it amazing every time I am with him. He has never told me how he feels about me. I know I have to end it soon if I want to keep my marriage. I love my husband but he drives me crazy with passion. So I know I will be in your shoes soon.
Katja