I don’t want to end my office relationship but I have been in a stable relationship for almost 5 years now. We are happy and rarely fight. My problem is I have become really close to a male friend at work ever since I went threw a medical dilemma. He has become my best friend and we tell each other everything. I have started to develop strong feelings for him to the point that I think about him all the time and want to spend all my time with him. A few months ago, he attempted to kiss me and I freaked out. The next time I saw him, I let it happen. It was exciting. So much sexual tension between us. I get butterflies when I see him or receive a text/call/email from him. I don’t want to leave my partner. I am just intrigued by having something different in my life and I don’t even feel guilty. I’m so confused by all of these feelings. My co-worker decided that nothing sexual can happen between us because I am in a relationship and he doesn’t want to be the cause of any problems. It makes me sad because I don’t want to lose him as a friend and I still can’t help but think about what it would be like to be with him. I just don’t know what to think anymore!