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I Don’t Know What He Is Thinking

Ask FreeloveMD | February 10, 2008

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I don’t know what he is thinking!! I met this guy at work and he asked me for my number. We ended up going out and dating and having the most perfect relationship. I knew everything about him and he confided in me about everything. Then after about 4 months of us dating he bumped into his ex girlfriend of 3 years and our relationship fell apart. He said he missed her and that he couldn’t get over seeing her. I took this really well, I told him to call her and that all I wanted was for him to be happy. Of course I was upset but I knew that we couldn’t be together, accepted it and was ready to move on. This is where the problem is…now he calls me everyday, he tells me he misses me and he tells me all about how much he hates his girlfriend. He said he completely regrets going out with her again and that he just can’t break up with her. Even his brother said he hates his girlfriend and is much more fond of me. I feel like he is still with this girl because he is afraid to let her go because he doesn’t want to miss her like he did the last time and he also can not seem to let me go either. Am I right? I don’t even know what to think. I just need some outside advice!

I can tell you exactly what is going on in his head and it is the same thing that goes through a lot of peoples heads. If they can have the best of both words then they are going to take it. Look at his perspective he can be with his ex girlfriend who he misses and had a connection with and he can also be with you. You are setting yourself up for misery and you need to let this guy go and do not answer his calls. If he really wanted to be with you he would have never gone back to this girl at all. He obviously has not moved on from her and you were just a temporary replacement. Remember he can tell you all he wants but actions speak louder than words. You are not his first and only priority and if I were you I would move on so you can meet someone who will make you number one.

This question was answered by Jasmine, a love expert and FreeloveMD contributor.

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