I Don’t Believe In ‘Happily Ever After’
Ask FreeloveMD | May 16, 2008
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I am having a hard time letting myself be happy because I don’t believe in ‘happily ever after’ anymore. I was with a guy for nearly 3 years and I really thought it was going to last forever but we broke up last year, which I found very tough especially since it ended very abruptly and bitterly. I am well over my ex now but I promised myself that I didn’t want to get into anything serious for a long time.
I have recently met an amazing guy who went through the same type of break up as me, we get along great, I find him very attractive, funny, brilliant company and he seems very reliable. The problem is all I can think about is going through the whole relationship thing again and it scares me so much. I know I’m going to let a great thing go but I just can’t help feeling like this…what am I to do????
haru akane chouco says:
March 14, 2010 at 9:10 am
you do not have to rush everything, it still takes a process to heal wounds of the heart.why not go back to base. start to love yourself again,find your happiness. it doesn’t really mean you should find another man that would make you whole again. why not try to make your self whole again without men. then when you have fully healed your wounds and your heart doesn’t bleed anymore, and at that moment you could really looked straight at your self in the mirror and see a happy free from pain face;then its time to move to level two: putting your heart in the line. never fear of falling or breaking its part of life, those things or struggles are made to make us stronger, we should learn from our mistakes, heartbreaks and from every things that pulled us down. happily ever after is just a myth but its up to you if you want it to come true.