“Marry me, or it’s time to go.”

Don’t wait on him. If you’re waiting on a proposal, you’re not likely to get it, so hold his feet to the fire.

I would have married my wife of ten years a lot sooner, and wouldn’t have many of the regrets I now do about the weaknesses and fears, which so plagued me then.

Also, keep in mind that your body was made as a temple to be worshiped by a husband… (Read Song of Songs for further details) if he ain’t your husband, then lock the temple doors. He is disrespecting you if he wants to do otherwise.

If this information seems harsh, then disregard it. But the world has a shortage of good men, and the likelihood that a young lady like you will pick one who doesn’t have a clue about what it means to be a man, is becoming all too common place. It’s sad, because neither boys or girls are brought up to understand what manhood really is. And until men in the world remember their roots, it’s going to be up to the ladies of the world to get back into the role of gatekeeper, and not giving “grown boys” a place to display their bad behavior - like living with you, getting all the benefits of marriage, but being too cowardly to make a real commitment. I hope that doesn’t sound like I’m being harsh with you. I have nothing but sympathy and respect for you, and I’m sorry that you now find yourself in this situation. Maybe you should let him read this response.

Finally. God bless you and your child. I’ll be praying for you, that your man grows a backbone sometime in the near future, and steps into the role of responsible provider.

Beau
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