http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/i-am-falling-out-of-love/ Get Free Relationship Advice. Fri, 21 Nov 2008 18:14:11 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/i-am-falling-out-of-love/#comment-7007 Jessica Sun, 13 Jul 2008 00:11:11 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=298#comment-7007 I am in this situation right now, and every day is a struggle to see why we started dating in the first place. People change so much between high school and their mid twenties. I am beginning to look at him as the best friend I ever had, but not as a lover or husband. Six years is a long time to spend with someone, so there is that urge to stay becaue you feel like you're losing something that's always been a part of you. We used to have alot in common, but now we can only get along when we do neutral things together such as watching movies or something he likes to do (like fishing, because I like the boat ride). How do you end something that's lasted that long without someone getting angry or resentful? I am in this situation right now, and every day is a struggle to see why we started dating in the first place. People change so much between high school and their mid twenties. I am beginning to look at him as the best friend I ever had, but not as a lover or husband. Six years is a long time to spend with someone, so there is that urge to stay becaue you feel like you’re losing something that’s always been a part of you. We used to have alot in common, but now we can only get along when we do neutral things together such as watching movies or something he likes to do (like fishing, because I like the boat ride). How do you end something that’s lasted that long without someone getting angry or resentful?

]]> http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/i-am-falling-out-of-love/#comment-6873 Serendipity5683 Thu, 03 Jul 2008 05:19:06 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=298#comment-6873 I had a similar situation with my highschool boyfriend but we went and got engaged which wasn't the best decision. What I recommend is really working at it and trying to figure out if there is something that has changed. Maybe something that originally drew to the person that is different or bothering you. If you just can't make it work be respectful and end it. I would recommend ending contact for alittle bit both of you will need time to become your own person again instead of the couple. Hope this helps. I had a similar situation with my highschool boyfriend but we went and got engaged which wasn’t the best decision. What I recommend is really working at it and trying to figure out if there is something that has changed. Maybe something that originally drew to the person that is different or bothering you. If you just can’t make it work be respectful and end it. I would recommend ending contact for alittle bit both of you will need time to become your own person again instead of the couple. Hope this helps.

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