I Am Dating A Married Man

Ask FreeloveMD | October 28, 2008

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I am dating a married man and we have been together for almost a year now. It is something that I never thought I would do. He is NEVER with her and is always with me. We are together every night of the week. Recently, his wife found out all about what was going on. I made a plea to him to make a decision but he won’t. He finally told me that he loved her two days after he told me I was his everything, which he doesn’t seem to remember now. The problem is he has become one of my best friends! I tell him everything!! We have all the same friends and live in a small town. I have no doubt that if he wasn’t married we would really be together. I don’t want to loose him! But I also know this can’t go on. What do I do?

The best thing to do is to tell him to take a hike unless and until he’s definitely not with his wife anymore. You’re right it can’t go on. You’re both just kidding yourselves.

This question was answered by Joe, a love expert and FreeloveMD contributor.

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  • Stalker says:
    November 6, 2008 at 11:06 pm

    Married men always return to home base because you are just fulfilling his sex needs.When it comes right down to it,a man is not going to trade all of the stuff his wife does for him just to have you.You are really not important except for giving him the real sex his wife probably isn’t.Do yourself a favor and dump him immediately.Oh yeah,I know because I dated a pathetic married man, too.They ALWAYS go back home.

  • cindy says:
    November 7, 2008 at 6:34 am

    I am in love with a married man. We were very good for each other. He wind up have a detached retina and hen he started thinking about how his life was going. He got back in the church because he knows he done we wrong. Yhere is no longer any sex involved so now we are best friends. But I still have feelings fir him. He knows that. We still do things together and his wife likes me but she knows nothing about what happened before, We were together for over a year.

  • Lisa says:
    December 21, 2008 at 2:30 pm

    I have been seeing a married man for three months. He told me upfront that he isn’t going to leave his wife and that’s fine by me. We haven’t had sex yet but go out once or twice a week. He’s a wonderful man who would lose everything including money, home and social stature if he were to divorce. I enjoy everything about him, then I go home to my life which I also enjoy. It’s wonderful to not worry about where the relationship will go and all the complications that brings. I hope to be with him for many years to come as this was an informed, thoughtful decision to be with him.

  • Lisa says:
    January 10, 2009 at 4:32 pm

    I am dating a married man for two months now. He told me upfront he wasnt going to leave her. I actually work with him, it started with flirting then he asked me out it wasnt sex at first it was time laughing and just fun. I am getting feelings for him its likewise for him to. I know its not gonna go anywhere further i m not sure what to do. I dont want anyone to get hurt, i never have done anything like this before. He is older by 16 years. Help

  • cecelia says:
    October 19, 2009 at 2:12 pm

    Am dating a married man and he told me that he has no problem with his wife.He told me that its not marriege as such because he impregnated the long and now they are staying together because because of the child.I dont know what to do and he asked me if i can have a child for him and if possible and my relationship and stay with him should i believe tis please help me.

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