You really need to wake up and take this as a sign. You should not be staying with someone who you have never met in person and does not seem willing to meet you in person. I might question why he has not been available to meet in person. Because of his evasiveness in setting up a meeting I might worry that he is trying to hide something from you. Could he be married or not really who he says he is? You need to clear the air with him and make it clear to him that to carry on with the relationship you need to meet him in person. Finally, it is sad but true, a lot can change based on physical attraction. I don’t think you can really say you are in love with someone you have never actually met. Please do not give him more time. If he cannot commit to meeting then you need to move on.