Husband Puts Me Down
Ask FreeloveMD | March 20, 2008
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I have been with my husband for 5 1/2 years and we have been married for a year now. The problem is he always puts me down, I can’t talk to him without him making me feel bad. He makes me feel like I am going crazy along with telling me I am. He is never wrong. He is always telling me how everything is my fault. I work 3 hours a day, I come home, clean, cook, and take care of the kids. He works and then spends his time on the computer. If we want to spend time with him, we have to play his games with him. I love him but I feel like a hired hand. Should I leave him?
You have a right to feel like a hired hand. You need to clear the air with this bozo before so much resentment has built up inside you that there will be no chance of reconciliation. If people live together and don’t respect each other then they ought not be together. Seek counseling if possible. If not start by preparing a list of how you feel you’ve been treated and unemotionally engage him in a dialog. You need to at least get his feedback prior to telling him to take a hike. If lines of communication can’t be set up then leaving or separating seems to be the only alternative.