How do I Save My Marriage?
Ask FreeloveMD | May 26, 2010
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How do I save my marriage? My wife just told me that she is not happy in our marriage anymore. She said that she wants to go our separate ways and find happiness with a person she will truly love. This is so hard for me to swallow and I feel so alone. I don’t know what else I can do to make her see that how important she is to me and save our marriage.
If she’s made a decision then you’ve got to accept it and move on. If not try to find the whys of her unhappiness and see if you can address them to save the relationship. Possibly suggest going to counseling together. Usually this type of situation arises because of lack of communication, but not always. Unless there is a consistent dialog between partners then you really might not know what’s up. There’s no doubt that this situation can leave your outlook on life in a bad place. Try to stay as active and focused on other things as possible and take up things that can build your self-confidence.
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June 1, 2010 at 7:21 am
You could try to get her back, but unfortunately this will just grow your pain and maybe not get her back in the end.
NurseBetty says:
August 7, 2010 at 3:06 pm
I have been in this situation before as the person who fell out of love and I can tell you that there is a chance. You both have to be completely honest with each other as to what exactly happened. First, is there someone else? If so, just let her go. She’s already crossed that line. If not, what changed? You both have to be completely and sometimes painfully honest. Is she not attracted to you? Do you not have things in common anymore? Have you been neglecting each other or taking each other for granted? Counseling and physical space helps. Sometimes people lose themselves in a relationship and they just start to feel like they are drowning in monotony. If there some things about you that have changed, you have to be willing to work on it. Convince her to go to counseling. You will either rediscover your love for one another, or you will part with understanding.