Comments on: How Do I Know If He Is “The One” http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/how-do-i-know-if-he-is-the-one/ Get Free Relationship Advice. Thu, 24 Jul 2008 04:21:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: WWID http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/how-do-i-know-if-he-is-the-one/#comment-6234 WWID Mon, 05 May 2008 21:19:41 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/?p=234#comment-6234 I've been in almost the exact same situation as you. except i was 17 and had dated one guy b/4 my now-husband. i think it's possible to know that you're supposed to be with someone from a young age, but it's also totally normal to have feelings of self-doubt when you're making a long term commitment. when we got to the point of talking marriage, i totally felt the same way you do - wanting to know what else was "out there," wondering if i really knew what i was doing. i'm not someone who believes in "soul mates" so i believe that if i'd chosen to move on, someone else would have been out there for me. but i decided that we had a pretty good thing going, and keeping that was worth "sacrificing" whatever other dating relationships i may have had down the line. i'm not going to tell you that decision has been easy - but i don't regret it. one thing i would say - in agreement with the expert above - you can commit to stay together but DO wait on the marriage front. you don't have to decide that right now! *good luck!* www.whywasidissed.com I’ve been in almost the exact same situation as you. except i was 17 and had dated one guy b/4 my now-husband. i think it’s possible to know that you’re supposed to be with someone from a young age, but it’s also totally normal to have feelings of self-doubt when you’re making a long term commitment. when we got to the point of talking marriage, i totally felt the same way you do - wanting to know what else was “out there,” wondering if i really knew what i was doing. i’m not someone who believes in “soul mates” so i believe that if i’d chosen to move on, someone else would have been out there for me. but i decided that we had a pretty good thing going, and keeping that was worth “sacrificing” whatever other dating relationships i may have had down the line. i’m not going to tell you that decision has been easy - but i don’t regret it. one thing i would say - in agreement with the expert above - you can commit to stay together but DO wait on the marriage front. you don’t have to decide that right now!

*good luck!*
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