Ask FreeloveMD | April 15, 2008
How can I stop being so needy? Everyone I know says I am a very needy person and that it can be very taxing on any relationship that I have, friendship or relationship wise. I also know that it is a big turn off to the other sex to be clingy and needy. I really want to try and change but I just don’t know how!
You can start by believing in yourself, which is easier said than done. The way to make it happen is by examining the things in your life that cause you to feel needy. Put them on paper and work on small things in each area that you can change. Eventually increase your control until your old habit of being needy has changed. Continually visualize how you need to act. You can be what you can see.
This question was answered by Joe, a love expert and FreeloveMD contributor.