His Ex is Making Our Lives Miserable
Ask FreeloveMD | July 19, 2010
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I don’t know what to do, I am worried his ex will always be around make our lives miserable. I recently finalized my divorce in order to date my best friend. He has been married and divorced twice now and has kids from both marriages. His most recent divorce was one year ago. Things between us are great but I worry that his ex will always be around meddling in our life. Should I leave him or try and ignore the problem?
Excess baggage is just that, but in the case of two ex spouses and kids it’s something that can’t simply be disregarded. In other words it’s going to be an ongoing thing. If you can’t deal with that it’s best to move on.
B says:
August 7, 2010 at 2:17 pm
If there were no kids involved, you could put your foot down on the meddling, but in this case, you are going to have to compromise. Set appropriate boundaries and make sure the wellbeing and happiness of the children always come first. They didn’t ask for this and every birthday and holiday for the rest of their childhood shouldn’t be overshadowed with tension and fighting.
Good luck. It always sucks to have to deal with exes.
B