He Never Calls, Should I Move On?
Ask FreeloveMD | January 15, 2008
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He never calls should I just move on!?! My aunt’s best friend hooked me up with her brother who seems real cool. We went out a twice and I had fun. I am a school counselor and he is a stock broker who works 80 hours a week. The problem is he never calls me and I am the one who is always calling him. When I do call him we talk for a long time, he just never initiates it (onetime I didn’t call him and we didn’t talk for 2 weeks…till I finally called him). I really like him and my aunt told me he liked me too, but I refuse to throw myself at him. Should I consider him not calling as a sign that he’s disinterested and just forget about him?
I always go by the saying that everyone has the same 24 hours in a day and what they chose to do it with it is up to them. He is obviously not ready for a relationship and does not have time to commit to you so I would move on. He may be working 80 hours a week but he still has time to give you a call if he wants to. They key words there are if he wants to. He is not choosing to make time to talk to you so how much can he really like you. I know it may be hard to hear but when someone truly likes someone they will make an honest effort to talk to the person and see how they are doing. Do not wait for someone who may not be ready for a relationship. Find someone who is willing to put forth as much effort as you are.