He Has Trouble Communicating with Me
Ask FreeloveMD | April 25, 2008
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My husband and I are approaching our six month wedding anniversary, we’re still working out the kinks of living together, and it seems he has trouble communicating with me. There are things that I do unintentionally that really bother him, but instead of talking about it, he’s mean to me. He gets hostile and rude, and then says things that can be hurtful. He’s not a mean person, and I don’t understand what drives him to be this way with me. What are some good ways to get him to communicate without being “girly” and annoying?
Any ideas why he’s behaving like he is? People can become annoyed over small things due to close proximity and a new situation like marriage. Are you both busy/happy with other parts of your life, like work? He’s being petulate and self-centered. Try to focus on activities that you both like to do as well as separate activities. If his behavior continues tell him how it makes you feel. If he doesn’t care about that then the problem is more serious and you might need counseling.
April says:
June 4, 2009 at 4:31 pm
I am going through the same thing in my marriage soon to be divorce. My fatther passed away last december and he cant deal with me having a nervous breakdown, he has shut himself and his emotions off to me. I seriously have no idea what to feel right now. I have two young boys, and no way to support them now. He left me with no job, a hostile environment living with my mom and no transportation. By the way if you have anything you would llike to say to him the email address is his, I have been left with nothing.