Comments on: He Broke-Up With Me Because He Cheated http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/ Get Free Relationship Advice. Tue, 07 Sep 2010 21:48:21 +0000 hourly 1 By: Ellie http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/comment-page-1/#comment-33313 Ellie Thu, 29 Apr 2010 06:02:13 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/#comment-33313 i just noticed your post was 3 years ago..lol i hope your over him and doing good! i just noticed your post was 3 years ago..lol i hope your over him and doing good!

]]> By: Ellie http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/comment-page-1/#comment-33312 Ellie Thu, 29 Apr 2010 05:59:54 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/#comment-33312 JENN- OMG your post. seemed like something i would write. But let me tell you... My boyfriend broke up with me on a sunday. My birthday was Thursday. I came back from our sales mtg and he was so excited to see me friday.. canceled for Sat. then went out with his friend sat ( who also cheats on his wife) This is the FIRST time he had gone out alone with his friend..i had a really bad feeling..we got into a fight over it.. he called me that night at 230am im sorry i love you my phone was on silent- BS never is on silent.. I want to be with you etc etc. We broke up the next night. My birthday was Thursday. He said he wanted to be friends.. I couldn't handle that... after i went over to his house one night a few nights later i asked him" have you been with anyone at all?? because i don't want o have sex with you if u have" he swore no.. keep in mind we were in love..his whole family loved me. I was the first girl he brought home..we spent 24/7 together..he stayed the night at my place 6 nights out of the week.. I found out today that he cheated on me the night before we broke up. How can he cheat?? Then call me and tell me he loves me and im the best thing that will ever happen to him and then break up with me the next day. on top of that on my birthday he got another motel..4 days later! He has NO IDEA i know he cheated on me... I want to tell him i know so bad, but i don't see the use. I can tell myself- oh he loved me thats why he didn't tell me..he didn't want t hurt me...etc. etc. but F that... if he loved me and cared why would u sleep with someone else? U can't say u were too Fd up! U went to a motel and paid for it... you obviously knew what you were doing. I just don't understand why he couldn't tell me. IN the car the night he broke up with me he could barley look at me, he was silent most the time.. He didn't even answer my calls that day, i had to drive to his house. And he thought I was the crazy one for driving to his house... god... JENN- OMG your post. seemed like something i would write.
But let me tell you…

My boyfriend broke up with me on a sunday. My birthday was Thursday.
I came back from our sales mtg and he was so excited to see me friday.. canceled for Sat. then went out with his friend sat ( who also cheats on his wife) This is the FIRST time he had gone out alone with his friend..i had a really bad feeling..we got into a fight over it.. he called me that night at 230am im sorry i love you my phone was on silent- BS never is on silent.. I want to be with you etc etc.

We broke up the next night. My birthday was Thursday. He said he wanted to be friends.. I couldn’t handle that… after i went over to his house one night a few nights later i asked him” have you been with anyone at all?? because i don’t want o have sex with you if u have” he swore no..
keep in mind we were in love..his whole family loved me. I was the first girl he brought home..we spent 24/7 together..he stayed the night at my place 6 nights out of the week..
I found out today that he cheated on me the night before we broke up. How can he cheat?? Then call me and tell me he loves me and im the best thing that will ever happen to him and then break up with me the next day.

on top of that on my birthday he got another motel..4 days later!

He has NO IDEA i know he cheated on me…

I want to tell him i know so bad, but i don’t see the use.
I can tell myself- oh he loved me thats why he didn’t tell me..he didn’t want t hurt me…etc. etc.

but F that… if he loved me and cared why would u sleep with someone else? U can’t say u were too Fd up! U went to a motel and paid for it… you obviously knew what you were doing.

I just don’t understand why he couldn’t tell me. IN the car the night he broke up with me he could barley look at me, he was silent most the time..
He didn’t even answer my calls that day, i had to drive to his house.
And he thought I was the crazy one for driving to his house…

god…

]]> By: SHIRO http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/comment-page-1/#comment-10380 SHIRO Sat, 20 Jun 2009 09:16:54 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/#comment-10380 my boyfriend cheated on its 1 month now when he says me with another guy he gets very jealousy and now he want me back i still love him so much what should i do my boyfriend cheated on its 1 month now when he says me with another guy he gets very jealousy and now he want me back i still love him so much what should i do

]]> By: Carina http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/comment-page-1/#comment-7522 Carina Sun, 10 Aug 2008 12:29:20 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/#comment-7522 Forget about him and move on. It's so true that once a man cheated on you, he's not really into you or take this relationship seriously. Because the same thing happened to me. He asked me to forgive him, said that they were just freind and promised me not to find her. However, after 3 yrs, I found that they still keep contact with each other. There's nothing I can do to keep this relationship but let it go, cuz the same thing will just happen and happen again. And this is my second and last time to break up with him. Forget about him and move on. It’s so true that once a man cheated on you, he’s not really into you or take this relationship seriously. Because the same thing happened to me. He asked me to forgive him, said that they were just freind and promised me not to find her. However, after 3 yrs, I found that they still keep contact with each other. There’s nothing I can do to keep this relationship but let it go, cuz the same thing will just happen and happen again. And this is my second and last time to break up with him.

]]> By: Jenn http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/comment-page-1/#comment-2499 Jenn Wed, 18 Jul 2007 21:44:57 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/#comment-2499 sorry, one more thing...is it ok if i don't want to forgive him? he was my best friend and i miss the companionship as well as my friend with whom i shared so much with. i want to forgive him and he said that perhaps we can be friends again one day but that seems so impossible. =( it's not fair. i know i didn't do anything wrong, yet i'm the one that feels like crap. again, HELP!! sorry, one more thing…is it ok if i don’t want to forgive him? he was my best friend and i miss the companionship as well as my friend with whom i shared so much with. i want to forgive him and he said that perhaps we can be friends again one day but that seems so impossible. =( it’s not fair. i know i didn’t do anything wrong, yet i’m the one that feels like crap. again, HELP!!

]]> By: Jenn http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/comment-page-1/#comment-2498 Jenn Wed, 18 Jul 2007 21:36:41 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/#comment-2498 wow...yeah, my ex-boyfriend broke up with me b/c he said that he "needed space" and "didn't feel the same way about me". he was under a lot of stress so i just assumed that was the major contributor b/c everything was going great as far as we were concerned. i'd been cheated on before in a previous relationship and i always emphasized that i never wanted to go through that again. needless to say, i went to a national competition and he slept w/ one of his friends. when i was over there, he was sending me "i love you" and "i miss you" text messages!!! that was at the beginning of the month...then he wanted to take a "break" on our 8 month anniversary (mid-month)...wanted me back the very next day...and broke up w/ me the following week. what a jerk! i found out through a friend about his rendezvous so i confronted him about it. of course, he denied it all. it's been 3 weeks and he randomly called me to say he was sorry and he admitted to doing that. he said that he used to have a crush on her before he met me but then somewhere around the 7 month mark, he started to feel that way again for her. i've been sad and very mad!! she's his gf now and i want to strangle both of them. any advice on how to let him go? i'm disgusted w/ his actions but i finally understand why he "didn't feel the same way" about me. Help!!! wow…yeah, my ex-boyfriend broke up with me b/c he said that he “needed space” and “didn’t feel the same way about me”. he was under a lot of stress so i just assumed that was the major contributor b/c everything was going great as far as we were concerned. i’d been cheated on before in a previous relationship and i always emphasized that i never wanted to go through that again. needless to say, i went to a national competition and he slept w/ one of his friends. when i was over there, he was sending me “i love you” and “i miss you” text messages!!! that was at the beginning of the month…then he wanted to take a “break” on our 8 month anniversary (mid-month)…wanted me back the very next day…and broke up w/ me the following week. what a jerk! i found out through a friend about his rendezvous so i confronted him about it. of course, he denied it all. it’s been 3 weeks and he randomly called me to say he was sorry and he admitted to doing that. he said that he used to have a crush on her before he met me but then somewhere around the 7 month mark, he started to feel that way again for her. i’ve been sad and very mad!! she’s his gf now and i want to strangle both of them. any advice on how to let him go? i’m disgusted w/ his actions but i finally understand why he “didn’t feel the same way” about me. Help!!!

]]> By: Adriana http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/comment-page-1/#comment-1444 Adriana Sat, 26 May 2007 00:05:51 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/#comment-1444 That happened to me yesterday and i cried the whole day and today and I was heartbroken and I don't want the same thing happening to you.Let him go because I found out life is better without a cheating man That happened to me yesterday and i cried the whole day and today and I was heartbroken and I don’t want the same thing happening to you.Let him go because I found out life is better without a cheating man

]]> By: raquel http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/comment-page-1/#comment-1180 raquel Thu, 17 May 2007 07:56:08 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/#comment-1180 the same thing happened to me, except that i found out he was cheating on me first, i was going to break up with him but he beat me to it, he just said this wasn't fair to me, he didn't feel the same way about me, i still confronted him on the cheating and of course he denied everything, you can't do anything when they don't want to be with you. the same thing happened to me, except that i found out he was cheating on me first, i was going to break up with him but he beat me to it, he just said this wasn’t fair to me, he didn’t feel the same way about me, i still confronted him on the cheating and of course he denied everything, you can’t do anything when they don’t want to be with you.

]]> By: Felicia http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/comment-page-1/#comment-478 Felicia Sun, 15 Apr 2007 19:50:13 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/#comment-478 Let him go he dont deserve you he cheated on you once he would do it again. Let him go he dont deserve you he cheated on you once he would do it again.

]]> By: sonia http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/comment-page-1/#comment-228 sonia Sun, 08 Apr 2007 18:17:13 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/he-broke-up-with-me-because-he-cheated/#comment-228 He is playing mind games with you, he wanted to end it with you any way, he just used his cheating as a easy way out, if he loved you he would've kept it to himself, I bet he is with the same chick he cheated on you with, don't beat yourself up, you can do better. He is playing mind games with you, he wanted to end it with you any way, he just used his cheating as a easy way out, if he loved you he would’ve kept it to himself, I bet he is with the same chick he cheated on you with, don’t beat yourself up, you can do better.

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