He Blames Everything On Me
Ask FreeloveMD | March 30, 2010
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How do I deal with a man who blames everything on me? I can never do anything right and everything is always my fault. If he is missing something, I did it. If I used something and he can’t find it, I stole it from him. We have been together 14 years and I have never done anything to him to make him treat me like this. He is always blaming things on me and I find it so offensive.
Once a habit like this is formed it’s hard to break. You need to try to have him start a new habit. First, have a conversation and lay out a plan. For example from now on his first reaction to things should not involve you. Then perhaps he could “ask” you if you know anything. He also needs to know just how much this annoys you. The bottom line is that you’re not his whipping boy or responsible for his issues.
Carl says:
August 10, 2010 at 12:51 pm
I have met many people like this, everything bad that happens to them is all because of someone else never anything they did. its a lack of responsability and accepting responsabilities for their own actions.
Ask him to sit down and logically explain how it was your fault?
A lot of times when you break it down they can see it really goes back to themselves. Good Luck,