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Ask FreeloveMD Archive » He Always Brings Up the Past

He Always Brings Up the Past

Ask FreeloveMD | July 21, 2008

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My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and he always brings up the past. Lately we’ve been getting in bickering fights about little things. But when I tell him how I’m feeling, he often plays lawyer and brings up every argument we’ve ever had in the past and eventually I’m so exhausted from the fight that I feel like I get nowhere in trying to solve it, and almost feel like it’s my fault when it clearly isn’t. Why is he obsessed with proving me wrong and why does he constantly bring up old fights in an argument?

He feels like he needs to be right all the time about everything. Don’t let yourself be engaged with every little thing. Pick things to debate that are important and leave the rest alone. Tell him you’re not interested in the past and if he continues to bring up past issues it could be a deal breaker with you.

This question was answered by Joe, a love expert and FreeloveMD contributor.

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