Girlfriend Likes Another Guy
Ask FreeloveMD | January 16, 2006
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It all started when I met this girl at work and I thought right off the bat that she was attractive. We started talking and after a couple weeks we were dating. We were dating for around a month and I found out that she was going to Ohio to see her ex-boyfriend who is 23 (she is 17, I am 18 and we both live in San Diego).
This really disappointed me because she basically led me on when we were technically “together” and she didn’t tell me she still had feelings for this guy. To make matters worse, while she was over there he told her that he might be moving back to San Diego, which definitely got her hopes up.
When she got back things kind of went back to normal as in we were kind of dating again. Soon afterwards I went to see my father in NY and when I got back she told my friend that she doesn’t “feel that way anymore about me”.
I really still feel like she likes me and I can tell. I don’t know if it’s just me but I still think she has feelings for me. So basically she is waiting for this guy to come back from Ohio so they can be together. But the catch is it isn’t a for sure thing that he is coming back. So what should I do?
Right now you seem un-decided about whether or not you two are actually in a relationship. That is not a good sign. It is also obvious that she still has feelings for her ex-boyfriend. Another bad sign.
She may still have feelings for you but she isn’t ready for a real relationship. If you two are going to be together her ex-boyfriend can no longer be in the picture. If she keeps talking to him and still has feelings for him it is time to find someone new.
kristoffer says:
November 26, 2008 at 10:14 pm
you better move on dude. Forget her,as early as now avoid getting hurt. Dont let your feeling prosper. the more you make your self attach to the relation the more it hurts at the end.