Does He Love Me?
Ask FreeloveMD | September 22, 2007
8 Comments
My boyfriend of three years claims to love me but he constantly lies and breaks promises. Does he love me? He also sneaks around and does things behind my back and then says that “he didn’t mean it”. He keeps saying he will change but never does. Does that mean he doesn’t love me? Should I keep trying or just give up?
Love is based on trust. Without trust, love is empty. Your boyfriend has completely disrespected you and any trust you might have had in him. You should move on.
Sandy says:
September 22, 2007 at 7:53 pm
I know what you feel cause i’m going through the same thing you are. And it hurts so much because you don’t know weather or not to keep holding on to them.
kat says:
October 31, 2007 at 6:36 pm
I totally understand this, my BF has made alot of deep promises that he has broken, it is very difficult for us to be together as a proper couple as his family will never accept me because of where they are from, i truly love him and i know he does care but he has said we will get married but now he will not go aginst his family, i understand that he doesnt want to dissapoint them but at the same time it is hard coz he wont let me go either i am confused on what to do as i really love him i have never have some one respect me the way he does what to do?
Katie says:
November 1, 2007 at 11:31 am
Hello there… I was going through the same thing you all are… but I somehow found a way out.. It’s the most hurting thing I’ve been through since I was with him for 4 years.. but the next day I woke up and I felt free I knew I was my own person again. I now live a wonderful life with someone who really makes me laugh and who is great with my son. I am only 19 and I have gone through so much stuff with my baby’s father (my ex) come on girls.. it NEVER gets better if it starts to go down hill it will never turn around to go back to the top!! Believe me just get out while you can. I thought I would stay because he was my baby’s father but then he started hitting me and really putting me down and I couldn’t handle it… My family and friends encouraged me and now I am here tryin to do the same for people I don’t even know but from the inside I know what ur going through
Anonymous says:
November 6, 2007 at 6:18 pm
Well let me start by saying sorry you have to go through with that. And good deal, you don’t let your ego get the best of you. Show him and prove to him that you don’t care, especially in front of whoever he’s doing this too. (Even though it’s eating you up inside and makes you feel disrespected) Do it back to him. They’ll both get over it. If you really want to stay in that relationship, fix things now woman. You never know how things just might work, but only time will tell. And let him know how you feel about things. It’s not that easy to just walk away like everyone says, because those problems are going to follow you, along with him. I believe that if you love somebody, you can make it work. Remember love is just a story until the end. I hope all works out for you. If you can sit there and put up with it, then I know you have the strength to pull through this.
Lisa says:
December 20, 2007 at 5:31 pm
Well you can’t always go assuming things. This all depends on just how big and bad the lies are. But also someone starting out with little lies might start telling bigger ones later. If you strongly suspect he’s cheating on you and you find out it’s true drop him like a hot potatoe. What kinds of things does he lie about? Are they just little things? Perhaps he tells little lies to avoid conflicts and arguments with you. Perhaps he really doesn’t mean anything by little white lies. This all depends on the circumstances and the situation. If you big time distrust the guy for many reasons then you either have a trust problem in general (perhaps) or maybe you do need to leave him. Follow your heart. Don’t always go by what everyone is telling you to do. How does he treat you otherwise? Does he treat you like he loves you other then the little “white lies” that is if that is what they are “little and insignificant”. You decide.
Mckinnley says:
February 14, 2008 at 1:26 am
Hi everyone my name is mckinnley im 15 nearly 16 in 3weeks ihave been in love with this guy since the very first moment i layed eyes on him which was 2years ago he is amazing i told him i loved him and he was shocked and we dont talk about it.
how do i know if he feels the same about me?!
Anonymous says:
August 4, 2008 at 7:49 am
Hey everyone, ok i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now.. And i im so in love, but he is really controlling he tells me what i can and cannot wear, who my friends can be and he grabs me. There are also to other girls saying they are with him. And he acts like its no big deal and yells at me when i confront the girls. So is this relationship worth it? Is he cheating or not? He can also be great but is the greatness stronger then the pain. I need help.
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