Do I date the guy that is around or wait for my true love? Three years ago I went on a holiday, and met the most amazing guy in the world. We instantly clicked and it was a “love at first sight” moments. For the two months I spent with him I had the most amazing moments of my life. He was everything I ever wanted and wished for, we communicated so well and really understood each other, as well as being attracted to each other physically…it was the kind of love that people only find once in a lifetime. However at the time I was still young (only 17) and could not remain there to be with him. Ever since then we have kept in touch but not dated formally.
A year ago I met my current boyfriend and even thought we did not “click” or connect on an emotional level we were very attracted to each other and pursued a relationship. We have been dating for a year and even though I do love him I know he is not the one…I still think of my first love and can’t get over him. Four months ago I broke up with my current boyfriend because I didn’t feel there was any reason to stay with him but he begged me to come back and proclaimed his undying love for me so I got back with him. He is a good person and I can see he does truly love me but I think we both understand its not true love.
Next year there is a chance that I might be going back to where I met my first love to study for a year, so now I don’t know what to do. Should I remain with my boyfriend and see how things work out? Should I try to be with my ex long distance until I go over there and leave my boyfriend? I don’t know what to do..please help!