Date My Friend’s Dad?

Ask FreeloveMD | May 8, 2007

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My friend’s dad asked me out on a date. He also told me to keep it a secret. I am 20 years old and he is 47, but that is not the issue. What bothers me is that he is my friend’s dad. Should I date him?

Him asking you to keep it a secret is a red flag. If he was genuine, he would talk to his daughter about it first instead of trying to hide it from her. If you really want to date him, tell him you will not agree to keep the relationship a secret.

This question was answered by Michael, a love expert and FreeloveMD contributor.

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  • maria says:
    May 13, 2007 at 10:17 pm

    Are you serious? You don’t have a problem with his age? Why not? There is something very wrong with a man who is checking out his little girls friends.
    I think if he thought it was ok that he would not ask you to hide it. I think he knows he is stepping out of line as a father and that is why he has asked you to hide the date.

  • Amanda says:
    May 25, 2007 at 10:36 am

    I would not do it. I know I’ve heard “age is just a number”. But there’s some things that can go a little out of line.

    He probably wants to get married and all that, just think bout how your best friend could become your step daughter.

    It’s your call, but seeing how he wants it hidden tells me he could be ashamed of himself.

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