Boyfriend Cheated On Spring Break
Ask FreeloveMD | April 14, 2007
5 Comments
I have been with my boyfriend for five years now and he has never given me a reason not to trust him. He recently went to Mexico for spring break and slept with a girl down there. I don’t know what to do. Do I leave or do I stay? I love him so much. I can’t just stop loving him. He’s my best friend, but he disrespected me by cheating on me. Should I leave or should I try to work it out?
He slept with someone else. Anyone that does this doesn’t really love you. If he loved you, he would never hurt you like that. It will be hard, but you need to leave.
Felicia says:
April 15, 2007 at 3:59 pm
Let him go. Five years and he goes and does that, that is uncalled for. First of all, why was his ass down there on spring break and not with you? Why didn’t he take you? In the words of Beyonce, “to the left, to the left.”
maria says:
April 16, 2007 at 9:41 am
He cheated on you… you have to walk away. 5 years is a long time and maybe over time you can learn to forgive him (if he learns his lesson). IF you let him get away with this he will always think he can do it and be forgiven. You need to be sure he knows his he will have to pay for his actions. You don’t want to let him think he can walk all over you.
Over time you can see if he puts in the effort to win you back and is worth forgiving.
Shubh says:
April 22, 2007 at 10:41 am
Forgive him once. See in his eyes if he repents.
If he does, he is yours. If he is his usual self after this too…
Time to leave,
Shubh
Bright says:
May 1, 2007 at 4:17 pm
So sad that I am conflicted, true he was wrong, but the way the world is- we groom men to be cheaters then get mad when they cheat…You need to find out WHY and let that be the deciding factor.
B
Simple says:
May 12, 2007 at 5:45 pm
If you forgive him, who is to say that he wouldnt do it again. Ask yourself this… If you do forgive him, will you be looking over your shoulders to see if hes being a good boy. Will this be a handicap in your relationship? If you do become a spy, will you be happy? Constantly looking over your shoulders will play a burden on you over time. Its best as the others say… Throw him to the curb, and if he comes back then maybe its time to set some bounderies. Be happy, there is alwsys someone out there that would love to love you in the way that you want to be loved.