Comments on: Bored With My Boyfriend http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/ Get Free Relationship Advice. Tue, 07 Sep 2010 21:48:21 +0000 hourly 1 By: Nicole http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-43549 Nicole Fri, 16 Jul 2010 00:58:35 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/#comment-43549 I can defeniately relate! My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four years and I love him sooo much but, he never wants to go out and he doesn't like to be adventurous like myself. He never let's me go out with my girlfriends because he wants me to stay with him all day long doing absolutely nothing! half the time I don't even come home from work, I try to get all the overtime as possible just becaus I know I have nothing to look forward to... I can defeniately relate! My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four years and I love him sooo much but, he never wants to go out and he doesn’t like to be adventurous like myself. He never let’s me go out with my girlfriends because he wants me to stay with him all day long doing absolutely nothing! half the time I don’t even come home from work, I try to get all the overtime as possible just becaus I know I have nothing to look forward to…

]]> By: Blue Agave http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-43512 Blue Agave Mon, 12 Jul 2010 20:24:22 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/#comment-43512 GIRLS! Wake up! Stop this. Get rid of those losers! Women should be cherished and adored, not treated like sugar mamma's to bow down to every man's needs. NO! Stop it. Shake yourselves out of this. Get out of your houses, you are just as guilty as the men are for being boring! You let yourselves get boring and the men got boring too. Go out, find hobbies, do arts and crafts, go clubbing, join a gym, be social, GET OUT AND MEET NEW PEOPLE!!!!! Shake yourselves out of this and get rid of those guys, it will hurt at first but for God Sakes, grow some balls and make YOURSELVES happy. Time will pass and you will feel better and be having fun again. Get out in the market, get on dating sites, go to dinners and lunches and MAKE YOURSELVES go out even when you don't want to. Meet friends and role models and surround yourselves with GOOD PEOPLE and make yourself into the best person you can be and THEN and ONLY THEN will you find someone else who is at their best who will be interested in you! Good Luck! Best Wishes! GIRLS! Wake up! Stop this. Get rid of those losers! Women should be cherished and adored, not treated like sugar mamma’s to bow down to every man’s needs. NO! Stop it. Shake yourselves out of this. Get out of your houses, you are just as guilty as the men are for being boring! You let yourselves get boring and the men got boring too. Go out, find hobbies, do arts and crafts, go clubbing, join a gym, be social, GET OUT AND MEET NEW PEOPLE!!!!! Shake yourselves out of this and get rid of those guys, it will hurt at first but for God Sakes, grow some balls and make YOURSELVES happy. Time will pass and you will feel better and be having fun again. Get out in the market, get on dating sites, go to dinners and lunches and MAKE YOURSELVES go out even when you don’t want to. Meet friends and role models and surround yourselves with GOOD PEOPLE and make yourself into the best person you can be and THEN and ONLY THEN will you find someone else who is at their best who will be interested in you!

Good Luck! Best Wishes!

]]> By: brooke http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-41749 brooke Wed, 23 Jun 2010 20:59:02 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/#comment-41749 im board too my boyfriend it sounds mean but he makes me pay for every thing i mean come on on my 19th birthday he "took" me to a restarant lets just say its a good job i took my purse he had £5 with him and i had to pay £30 pound it was rediculous i was soooo inbarested and if i ask him if he wants to goout with me its like he is ashamed of being seen with me...i also found out that he was in secrate contact with hie EX and he tried to lye his way out of it ... i had evidence sent to my email addy from one of her friends ..... pictures, and a break down of the conversation they had it broke my heart ... i thaught this guy was messing with me but i then was told about a secrate MYSPACE account he had and i found a conversation between them on there he tried deniying it we have been going out for 2 years in november and he wants to start a family ... there is noooooo way ............ this will sound harsh but im only with him for company i hate having sex with him if fact i havent let him touch me sexualy in 6 month i feel discusted that he even trys to get sex out of me expecaly because i believe he had sex with that thing ... any way in a nut shell im not happy and nobody will talk to me about it im board too my boyfriend it sounds mean but he makes me pay for every thing i mean come on on my 19th birthday he “took” me to a restarant lets just say its a good job i took my purse he had £5 with him and i had to pay £30 pound it was rediculous i was soooo inbarested and if i ask him if he wants to goout with me its like he is ashamed of being seen with me…i also found out that he was in secrate contact with hie EX and he tried to lye his way out of it … i had evidence sent to my email addy from one of her friends ….. pictures, and a break down of the conversation they had it broke my heart … i thaught this guy was messing with me but i then was told about a secrate MYSPACE account he had and i found a conversation between them on there he tried deniying it
we have been going out for 2 years in november and he wants to start a family … there is noooooo way ………… this will sound harsh but im only with him for company i hate having sex with him if fact i havent let him touch me sexualy in 6 month i feel discusted that he even trys to get sex out of me expecaly because i believe he had sex with that thing … any way in a nut shell im not happy and nobody will talk to me about it

]]> By: alice http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-40060 alice Sun, 06 Jun 2010 23:46:11 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/#comment-40060 this thread actually made me cry because i KNOW everyone here would be happier without their boyfriends but i'm in the same boat as you guys and i just can't do it. i'm so used to having him there for me that i'm afraid to be alone again. we've been together for almost three years and started dating junior year of high school and now go to college together. all we do is sit and watch tv, and when i try to talk to him about my life or anything in general he either has no response or changes the subject. he never wants to hang out with my friends although we actually do stuff, but i'll sit in his basement and watch him and his friends play halo for hours. i love him and really hope he'll change, but i find myself getting more and more annoyed with him and no changes coming from his end. what should i say to him? i want to end these issues so i can be happy around him again. this thread actually made me cry because i KNOW everyone here would be happier without their boyfriends but i’m in the same boat as you guys and i just can’t do it. i’m so used to having him there for me that i’m afraid to be alone again. we’ve been together for almost three years and started dating junior year of high school and now go to college together. all we do is sit and watch tv, and when i try to talk to him about my life or anything in general he either has no response or changes the subject. he never wants to hang out with my friends although we actually do stuff, but i’ll sit in his basement and watch him and his friends play halo for hours. i love him and really hope he’ll change, but i find myself getting more and more annoyed with him and no changes coming from his end. what should i say to him? i want to end these issues so i can be happy around him again.

]]> By: Jenny http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-38316 Jenny Tue, 25 May 2010 23:27:30 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/#comment-38316 Yeah I was in a relationship for 4 years and it was mostly a routine. He was like my safety net in a way because I didn't wanna be alone. He had ne convinced I wouldn't find anyone else and I grew sick and tired of his crap. I dumped him over 9 months ago and it was the best decision I've ever made. We still talk occasionally but I've found someone new that I've been with for 6 and a half months and he is by no means boring or anything that my ex was. Seriously, just dump your boyfriends if you are bored or in a routine. Otherwise it'll drag you down and make you unhappy. Yeah I was in a relationship for 4 years and it was mostly a routine. He was like my safety net in a way because I didn’t wanna be alone. He had ne convinced I wouldn’t find anyone else and I grew sick and tired of his crap. I dumped him over 9 months ago and it was the best decision I’ve ever made. We still talk occasionally but I’ve found someone new that I’ve been with for 6 and a half months and he is by no means boring or anything that my ex was. Seriously, just dump your boyfriends if you are bored or in a routine. Otherwise it’ll drag you down and make you unhappy.

]]> By: CLARE http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-37475 CLARE Wed, 19 May 2010 15:36:58 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/#comment-37475 i am so glad i am not alone. my man is so boring it is unreal. he is loving and kind and i think that is why i stay. but he will not work nas i do so i pay for everything and he will just lie down all day watching shit on the tv. when i go to see him as we do not live together he never makes an effort and his flat is like apig sty. none of his so called mates work and they all just doss about allday.i need to move on he is taking me for a rite mug i am so glad i am not alone. my man is so boring it is unreal. he is loving and kind and i think that is why i stay. but he will not work nas i do so i pay for everything and he will just lie down all day watching shit on the tv. when i go to see him as we do not live together he never makes an effort and his flat is like apig sty. none of his so called mates work and they all just doss about allday.i need to move on he is taking me for a rite mug

]]> By: Tyneisha http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-37060 Tyneisha Tue, 18 May 2010 04:17:04 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/#comment-37060 my spouse and i have been together for 2 years and we now have a 5 month old daughter together. i used to be madly in love with him but for the past 7 months, ive begun to hate everything about him...literally. i dont even get aroused by him anymore and when he touches or tries to kiss me, i cringr and feel like i want to vomit....i want to try to fix it of our childs sake but the thought of him makes so angry....what should i do?? my spouse and i have been together for 2 years and we now have a 5 month old daughter together. i used to be madly in love with him but for the past 7 months, ive begun to hate everything about him…literally. i dont even get aroused by him anymore and when he touches or tries to kiss me, i cringr and feel like i want to vomit….i want to try to fix it of our childs sake but the thought of him makes so angry….what should i do??

]]> By: **attention danielle** !!!! --- exact same situation. http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-36090 **attention danielle** !!!! --- exact same situation. Fri, 14 May 2010 17:35:27 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/#comment-36090 you know, its really amazing how many of us go through the same thing. and like idiots, we continue to stay in these relationships when we are so miserable. me and my boyfriend do absolutely nothing !! i work full time, 6 days a week, and he works 5 days a week. we dont have a day off together, so all of our days we just sit and watch t.v. how much t.v. can you really watch though ? he is always trying to engage in sex, but i have nooooooooo desire to have sex with him at all !! aside from the fact that there is no foreplay, he is just not a passionate lover, and bad sex alone messes up a relationship. we need to be satisfied physically and mentally, and when we arent, we feel, bored and depressed, and blame ourselves, well im tired of blamin my self, and trying to change myself for his benifit. when we firsst met, i thought he was gorgeous. 6' green eyes, 200 lbs, built. just everything a man should be. aside from the personalitly. his ego is large that our state. he jsut turns me off all the time. and then im a sucker. and i stay, because one day out of the week he is nice, and then i hope it will get better... but it doesnt get better. soon im going to change this. i cannot live like this anymore. ive lost most of my self esteem, and even resulted in writing on the internet to totaly strangers. he is making me lose my mind. . . you know, its really amazing how many of us go through the same thing. and like idiots, we continue to stay in these relationships when we are so miserable. me and my boyfriend do absolutely nothing !! i work full time, 6 days a week, and he works 5 days a week. we dont have a day off together, so all of our days we just sit and watch t.v. how much t.v. can you really watch though ? he is always trying to engage in sex, but i have nooooooooo desire to have sex with him at all !! aside from the fact that there is no foreplay, he is just not a passionate lover, and bad sex alone messes up a relationship. we need to be satisfied physically and mentally, and when we arent, we feel, bored and depressed, and blame ourselves, well im tired of blamin my self, and trying to change myself for his benifit. when we firsst met, i thought he was gorgeous. 6′ green eyes, 200 lbs, built. just everything a man should be. aside from the personalitly. his ego is large that our state. he jsut turns me off all the time. and then im a sucker. and i stay, because one day out of the week he is nice, and then i hope it will get better… but it doesnt get better.

soon im going to change this. i cannot live like this anymore. ive lost most of my self esteem, and even resulted in writing on the internet to totaly strangers. he is making me lose my mind. . .

]]> By: Peta http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-35619 Peta Sun, 09 May 2010 01:47:38 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/#comment-35619 i feel the same way . We've been together for 2 yrs and things have been good- barring a few huge arguments- but now that we're about to move in together I'm not so sure. I'm very frustrated with his bad habits, and talking to him seems to reap temporary fixes. I was so sure about us, now .... I'm not so sure... am beginnig to wonder if it's time to move on. Honestly I'm just tired and frustrated with the situation i feel the same way . We’ve been together for 2 yrs and things have been good- barring a few huge arguments- but now that we’re about to move in together I’m not so sure. I’m very frustrated with his bad habits, and talking to him seems to reap temporary fixes. I was so sure about us, now …. I’m not so sure… am beginnig to wonder if it’s time to move on. Honestly I’m just tired and frustrated with the situation

]]> By: boffin http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-31882 boffin Sat, 24 Apr 2010 15:26:49 +0000 http://www.freelovemd.com/ask-lovemd/bored-with-my-boyfriend/#comment-31882 Just sleep with someone you have crush on...and don't let your boring boyfriend know this... Your boring boyfriend will never leave you no matter what happens and you can fullfill your needs thisway.! That's what girl around the world are doing but discreet. Just sleep with someone you have crush on…and don’t let your boring boyfriend know this…
Your boring boyfriend will never leave you no matter what happens and you can fullfill your needs thisway.!
That’s what girl around the world are doing but discreet.

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