Blinded By Love
Ask FreeloveMD | June 9, 2007
4 Comments
I was involved in a three year relationship that ended one year ago. Now we are talking again and both agree we belong together. He has told me I am the “love of his life”, and I truly feel the same way. He has told me he wants to take it slow, and I agree.
Recently he had a falling out with his roommates and decided to move out. The problem is he has moved in with a friend he used to mess around with. He says they are just friends now and nothing is going on. Well, they both sleep together in the same bed at night. He swears up and down that there is nothing between them and that two friends can sleep in the same bed and not mess around. It is a one bedroom apartment, and there is a living room with a couch he could sleep on. Am I being blinded by love on this one?
Yes you are being blinded by love. Living in the same apartment and sleeping in the same bed with an ex-lover is unacceptable. There is a good chance something is going on between them. If you are the “love of his life” he should be staying with you. Move on to someone new.
Maria says:
June 24, 2007 at 9:21 pm
Walk away from this slime ball he has no respect for you and is probably up to no good. Even if nothing has happened (which it probably has) he shouldn’t be staying there at all never ming in her bed.
Brian says:
June 25, 2007 at 3:45 pm
If he has a choice of the bed or the couch, hes already made his mind up. He is messing around on you and you shouldn’t feel bad about walking away. We all say he/she is the love of my life but in reality everyone is replaceable. And im sorry for being blunt but he has already replaced you.
Dawn says:
June 26, 2007 at 6:41 pm
Are you kidding me? You have to know better then that. There is NO WAY a man is sleeping in the same bed with an ex lover and not having any kind of physical contact. C’mon now. How can you even think for one minute he might not be? That’s insane. You need to get better self esteem and then a better man. No one deserves that.
Shanaa says:
August 13, 2007 at 10:14 pm
Yes. Something is defenitly going on between them. I mean, it doesn’t take a genious to reliaze that! He is playing mind games with you and using you for his own good. Leave him!!!!!!!