My Ex and I broke up 7 months ago. The first 2 months were amazing. I felt liberated, I felt great. I knew I had made the right decision. I dated, I found myself, I had a blast. Then we started hanging out again.

At first it was ok, just hanging out. Then it became more whether either of us wanted to admit it or not. I asked once what was going on and got nothing back. of course that should’ve done it for me but alas, were still doing the dating thing, the sleeping together thing. the not moving on thing.

However, recently I have caught him in a web of lies concerning a girl he was seeing at one point recently. I got very upset about it because we had an agreement to be honest about seeing other people. I believed what he said because I figured that as friends, he had no reason to lie to me. Big mistake. Everything he told me was a lie and little by little i found out the truth.

I guess what im wondering is…why am I still doing this tango with him. Why do we both act like we are still together but I cannot get any answers from him on what he wants or why he is continuously jerking me around emotionaly. I feel like I am back in his life, but nothing has changed and I know you can’t change someone, but dont I deserve to know what he is thinking on the terms of what is going on?

I’m so confused and I’m very hurt. Yes, I understand that I should get him out of my life. Ironically he is sleeping on my couch at the very moment i am writing this, a few feet away. I want to know whats going on. I want him to talk to me and I dont want to be made a fool of by the same boy for about the 24772 time in 3 years.