I don’t know what to do, I am worried his ex will always be around make our lives miserable. I recently finalized my divorce in order to date my best friend. He has been married and divorced twice now and has kids from both marriages. His most recent divorce was one year ago. Things between us are great but I worry that his ex will always be around meddling in our life. Should I leave him or try and ignore the problem?

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How do I save my marriage? My wife just told me that she is not happy in our marriage anymore. She said that she wants to go our separate ways and find happiness with a person she will truly love. This is so hard for me to swallow and I feel so alone. I don’t know what else I can do to make her see that how important she is to me and save our marriage.

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I’m in love with my best friend. We have been friends for almost 6 years now, he’s everything I need and want. He just got out of a four year relationship a few months ago. Recently I told him how I feel for him. Unfortunately, he said he looks at me as only his best friend and doesn’t think he could ever see me as more. Do you think this is because he is scared of getting hurt again or because I’m really just his best friend?

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I have a crush on my old professor and don’t know what to do! About a year ago I had a class with an amazing professor. He was a good teacher and very attractive. He is funny, smart and kind of nerdy, which I like. He and I talked a few times after class about our personal lives, just family and friend kind of things. He was always very nice but it seemed strictly business. He’s not married and I don’t think he has ever been (I’m not trying to break up a marriage). There are a couple of “problems”. I’m 25 and he is 40, this doesn’t bother me at all but I don’t know if it would bother him. He was my professor and I don’t know if he will always see me as a student even though I no longer attend that college. I’m not in love with him or anything crazy like that, just a crush. I would just like to get to know him better and see where that goes. In the coming months I have to go back to my former school and take one last class and I know I will see him. I want to tell him how I feel but I’m afraid. I don’t know what to say or how to say it. The worst he could say is no but I don’t want to look stupid. I would just like some advice on what I should do or whether this is just a bad idea.

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How do I deal with a man who blames everything on me? I can never do anything right and everything is always my fault. If he is missing something, I did it. If I used something and he can’t find it, I stole it from him. We have been together 14 years and I have never done anything to him to make him treat me like this. He is always blaming things on me and I find it so offensive.

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years and I don’t understand why all of a sudden I am acting so needy towards him. We have been together since high school and he is the only person I have ever been in a relationship with. I have shared every “first” with him and, for the most part, he has with me. When we graduated from high school, we moved to different places for school. Although it was tough, we have been making it work. Recently, I’ve become increasingly clingy and emotional about him. I was never like this before, and used to prided myself on letting him “be with the guys” without feeling guilt. Now, whenever he gets off the phone to go out with someone I feel empty, alone, and break down in tears. When this happens, he says he’ll cancel his plans and talk with me, but I don’t want him to only stay with me because I’m desperate for his attention. I want him to want to talk with me. I’ve never been needy before, but I think the long distance is finally catching up to me. I don’t know what to do, I just want to feel like “me” again.

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I don’t want to end my office relationship but I have been in a stable relationship for almost 5 years now. We are happy and rarely fight. My problem is I have become really close to a male friend at work ever since I went threw a medical dilemma. He has become my best friend and we tell each other everything. I have started to develop strong feelings for him to the point that I think about him all the time and want to spend all my time with him. A few months ago, he attempted to kiss me and I freaked out. The next time I saw him, I let it happen. It was exciting. So much sexual tension between us. I get butterflies when I see him or receive a text/call/email from him. I don’t want to leave my partner. I am just intrigued by having something different in my life and I don’t even feel guilty. I’m so confused by all of these feelings. My co-worker decided that nothing sexual can happen between us because I am in a relationship and he doesn’t want to be the cause of any problems. It makes me sad because I don’t want to lose him as a friend and I still can’t help but think about what it would be like to be with him. I just don’t know what to think anymore!

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My ex hooked up with someone else now wants to get back together. We had been dating for three years but recently (3 weeks ago) broke up because we were fighting a lot and things just didn’t seem “right” anymore. During the break we have stayed in contact the whole time and often times talk about how much we miss each other and how we are still in love. Now my ex wants to get back together, only problem is he has admitted that he was “with” someone else for one night during our break. I don’t know what to do I am so torn. Is this forgivable?

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